I am inlove with my bestfriend

Philippines
January 17, 2007 7:54am CST
Yes, I am in love with my best friend. I know being in love with my best friend means loosing him as a friend. I don't want that to happen. He's so special to me that I can't live without him. But I can't stop what I feel. He does not know yet but in the long run, I know, he will find out about it. What should i do? I can't help feeling akward everytime he's around. And everytime he holds my hand, I feel electrified. I miss him everytime he's not with me and I feel jealous everytime he's with my other friends. I need help, I am indeed, crazy.
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100 responses
• India
17 Jan 07
You are deep in love with your best friend so there is nothing bad and by the way why are you jelous for that, you should be happy that you love him and soon you both will be close to each other and be in a good relation forever, don't worry and go ahead with your love life, you will get sure good things in life with your partner.
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• Italy
17 Jan 07
I think friendship between a boy and a girl cannot exist!
@marty3888 (2355)
• Acme, Michigan
18 Jan 07
you are wrong
• Pakistan
18 Jan 07
jus tell him n cc wat he replies
@rainyang (16)
• China
18 Jan 07
It's not a rare occurance that friendship develops some kind of relationship as lovers.that You can be best friends means you have something in common,you attract each other for some reason of another,if you love each other,it's much better for you to go through life together.Truely,you may lose a best friend ,but what you get is a suitable person you are willing to live with.Friends are everywhere,as long as you look for them,but husband is only one.
@geetudi (29)
• India
17 Jan 07
you should tell him the truth. He will be having same feeling for you. If its not you will come to know the what is the situation.
• Serbia And Montenegro
18 Jan 07
geetudi is right u need to tell him. if u dont tell him he will not know how u fell. he can fell same thing like u but he dont whant to risk friendship. tell him
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
ooopps.. may i correct you letting him know that you love him doesn't mean that you'll lose him. what if he feels the same way too? if that happens you really are a loser.
@mahaneesh (297)
• India
18 Jan 07
Don't tell him...Just love him.... if he comes to know also he'll not feel bad.. believe in god...trust in him... even me in same situation but never felt bad as LOVING is not sin... love is to give...just give give give n giving... Problem arises when u start expecting something... wen expectation breaks we get hurt...right...!!! If u love him then u'll feel happy if he's happy na... just enjoy being in love... Its bcoz of god he came in ur life..leave on him and continue with ur love...:)
• India
18 Jan 07
well its one of the best things that can happen to u. atleast u kno that person very well and perhaps u wont have to regret later of a thing that u didnt knew, check out wheter if ur friend is also having the same kind of feelings for u.If this is so,u can ask him, Believe me its going to be wonderful for u.
• India
18 Jan 07
u r not crazy..... but u wud be if u won't tell him what u feel about him...
@bugbaby (1787)
• Indonesia
18 Jan 07
good and congratulation for you more better have boyfriend from a friend relation before and more better again if you already know about him
@cindy83 (133)
• China
18 Jan 07
I canot mage it, IF I fal in love with my friend, I think I canot accept him became my boyfriend You are true, friend is a god relationship, and it will exist forever, but if one love the other, maybe it wil disappear because of love. but you cannot live with him, so you will accept him as your boyfriend, you lost a friend, you should realize it, and don't worry about it.
• Malaysia
18 Jan 07
Love quite often happens on best friends. I know your problem that you worry about that you will loose him forever if you tell him you love him. You can try not to tell him in the direct way instead let him find out by himself. You can give some signal for him first to show that you fall in love on him, be sure don't over it or it will mess up the whole thing. Then He will find out soon. I think he will find a good way to reject you if he don't have the same feeling on you as he will also not want to loose you as his best friend. You both will not too embarrassed facing with each other then and still can be friend. I just suppose this is in the worst condition, hope you get what I mean here.
@destroyer (784)
• Pakistan
18 Jan 07
i say tell him how you feel before he gets romantically involved with someone else! than you'll regret keeping those feelings hidden! Like you said he's your best friend he's sure to understand!
@deepu113 (450)
• India
18 Jan 07
just....tell to him......
@bambyz (40)
• Egypt
18 Jan 07
well..i'm in the same situation:( but you know what, i wont do anything about it becoz first i really cant lose him and i dont want to..and second becoz i dont know how he feels abt me..and that is one thing you'll never know unless you ask him and that is the thing:( becoz he as your best friend probably just treatin you like the best thing that ever happened in his life and that's becoz you are his best friend so come again to the question can he love me like i want him to love me not just friend thing?? if you find that out let me know please
@ambuvs (100)
• India
18 Jan 07
There is no wrong in loving ur best friend. He can understand u better than any one else in this world.
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
18 Jan 07
If friendship does mean alot for you I would ask you to think twice before revealing your real feelings to your friend. Are you really sure about your feelings. What do you think are his feelings towards you? Does he take more interest in you than towards other women? Sometimes its useless to express your real feelings if you know that love does not have any chance to grow. If I were you I would make sure that it's a reciprocal thing from both sides before I take the first move.
@Redkitty (480)
• India
18 Jan 07
best friend is better to love
• India
18 Jan 07
It is better to have a romantic relationship with best friend as u him/her in a better way.
@mugha007 (17)
• Pakistan
18 Jan 07
dear platinum singer it is my advised to u do a counter-active policy . whenever u see that ur boy friend is hangin around with ur friends u do the same trick i mean u start making chit chat with ur other friends only that will bring him close to you other wise u will lose ur friend