First Date
By frndzb4
@frndzb4 (131)
7 responses
@redyellowblackdog (10629)
• United States
17 Jan 07
The first date is probably the most important date you will have with a potential partner.
Therefore, it is necessary to make it as special as possible.
Actually, this is wrong and is a common mistake. I repeatedly made this mistake about first dates. Time and time again my relationships would slowly get cold after getting off to a good start from that "special" first date.
So, I decided that on my first date, I would just be myself and save the "special" date for persons I got along with really well.
This worked so well that I quickly met my future wife. We have been married 34 years.
So, be nice on your first date, but more importantly, relax and enjoy yourself. Save your money and effort for those "special" dates until after you get to know the person.
This worked for me. Good luck to you.
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@Shar11 (419)
• United States
17 Jan 07
I think doing something a little different than the usual movie and dinner can be fun..Most of us like trying something new and I have been impressed with dates in the past when they planned something I wouldn't usually do,..A date once took me to a butterfly garden and I had never been to one before..He also planned a nice lunch on a grassy hill overlooking an airport..Sounds strange but it was actually nice sitting there, talking and watching the planes come in and out..We talked about all the places we would like to travel to in our lives..
There was also a date I went on before I was married where we went to a comedy club..This was a good date because I laughed all night..
I left the date with a great feeling and a happy mood..So doing something fun or that brings laughter is a good idea too....
So my advice is doing something a little different and something fun!
Those always seem to be the most memorable dates :)
@lisado (1227)
• United States
17 Jan 07
How cool! The butterfly garden sounds really nice! I'd love to go to something like that. The Comedy Club is a good idea, too. Wasn't it hard to get to know each other, though? Did you go out to dinner or something first so you could talk? Or was there dinner at the Club?
@ashuashish (154)
• India
17 Jan 07
well i would not prefer to go for movie or to a resturent to impress my partner.the main thing is that if i am serious for my partner than i will go in any place like a park and discuss on each and every topic that may effect our futer so that we will not have to face any problam
@inflamation (866)
• Pakistan
17 Jan 07
I will make my 1st date as my dream date and let me describe you my dream date. I will go to her house to pick her up in my car. Then she will come down and will sit next to me. Then 1st I will go to the beach and will have a long walk with holding coffee in our hand then I will take her for a candle light dinner and then I will dance with her on very light instrumental music then we would have dinner seeing in each others eyes. After dinner I'll order just one ice cream and we both will eat from one spoon and having just one scoop. Then I will hug her for a very long time. Then I will drop at her home and i'll drop her till her bedroom holding her in my hands and will drop her softly on her bed and then I will move on to my house. This is my dream date.
@Eisenherz (2908)
• Portugal
17 Jan 07
The basic first step, of course...take her out to the cinema or some restaurant ;)