What would you do?
By eseomame
@eseomame (1146)
United States
January 17, 2007 8:44am CST
what if you get to find out one day that your boyfriend/gfriend of 5 years has been in and out of 3 relationships within the 5 years of your dating without you having a clue. (Everybody else knows this except you, you guys are still going strong right now and he's not currently in any). Would you break up or give him another chance?
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7 responses
@redyellowblackdog (10629)
• United States
17 Jan 07
This gf/bf is using you as "backup". What is going on is that she/he prefers anyone to you, but when no one else is available, you'll do. He/she takes you for granted and does not really care about you at all.
If that's good enough for you, stay. If not, break up.
Good luck to you.
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@nickventere (1420)
• Zambia
19 Jan 07
I agree with redyellowblackdog.
A relationship like this is not worth pursuing. You would be hurt more when that partner finally drops u off when they meet who they consider a lifetime partner. And u would remain there, astounded, and trying to cope with reality, as time swiftly passes by!
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@Cherry_Eve (285)
• Indonesia
17 Jan 07
I will break up with him/her, there's no doubt about that.
If s/he only cheat me once, maybe I still forgive him/her but 3 relationship, that means s/he doesn't respect me anymore and I think i'll have enough with a person like that. Maybe it will hard at the first time, but I'm sure that time will heal my heart.
@kritipen (4082)
• United States
17 Jan 07
I would conclude that this guy is trying to pass his time with me or in the process of experimenting. He will probably take a very long time to learn about relationships or probably will never learn. I cannot definitely give this guy another chance, he may never learn if he is excused.
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@sanjeev9 (115)
• India
17 Jan 07
ya its an serious topic and anyone may be getting upset after knowing this and it is very bad thing which is done by most of boyfriend/girlfriend does so in this situation no chance will be given to any one because he/she had cheated and played with the life pf someone it is very wrong.so no chance will be given that's right
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
19 Jan 07
I would break up with him. he has not only cheated on me once but three times and that is just unacceptable.
I have been cheated on in the past and it is a horrible feeling of hurt. i tried to forgive and move on but the trust was just not there anymore.
NOpe, I am a one mans woman and I would prefer if he was a one womans man =)
