is it cheating or not

@lvhughes (545)
United States
January 17, 2007 1:09pm CST
a spouse of 7 yrs. hunts down his ex- girlfriend. creates a email address to hide it from you and keeps tell her in the emails that she is the only person he has ever loved, and stuff like that. when you find out and confront him he says that it is your fault because you were snooping on the computer that you have owned sence before marring him are you being noise, or is he cheating.
8 responses
• United States
17 Jan 07
If your hiding... your lieing and if your lieing your guilty of something... and if your guilty of something... your cheating. It's simple.
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@lvhughes (545)
• United States
19 Jan 07
thanks i love the way you think
@Rahleah (187)
• United States
17 Jan 07
It's cheating. He can "couch" it anyway he wants by saying that you snooped or whatever, but that doesn't chance the definition of it. It's cheating. Plain and simple.
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@lvhughes (545)
• United States
19 Jan 07
thanks i agree
@rachelcaron (1679)
• United States
17 Jan 07
That is definitely betraying you. I would call it cheating as well. It is your computer. You have a right to view the stuff that is on it. I'm sorry you have to go through this.
@lvhughes (545)
• United States
19 Jan 07
thanks i am using yall as a poll to prove my point. it is looking like ill win this one.
• United States
19 Jan 07
well definatly cheating. the other one is betraying the better half. when both are couples since 7 yr's then where comes the question of ur n mine. both are combined n so are there things. so there is nothing wrong if the better half have seen the computer. it's not the falut. fault lies that the other one is cheating the relation and betraying the person he/ she married.It is definatly cheating.
• United States
31 Jan 07
cheating!! he would say the same thing if the tables were turned. its his fault for doing it and trying to get away with it.
• United States
22 Feb 07
it sound like cheating to me get. read of him. i would.
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@sweetlady10 (3611)
• United States
19 Jan 07
Definitely this is cheating. Someone try to hide something when she/he is doing something wrong or inappropriate.
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@mom2boys (334)
• United States
19 Jan 07
wow, i have a friend going thru this, altho it is suppose to be a friend of both of them, while they say its innocent fun, they are just playing she is hurt by it, and why did her husband make up over 5 email accts to hide emails from her **my friend** this is an emotion affair. so if he says he never stopped loving her or she is the only one he has loved then why did he marry you??? either way its not right and blaming it on you for snopping, well whatever he is the one betraying you.
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