are you ready to get married ?????

Philippines
January 17, 2007 9:46pm CST
thats the big question,i've been married for 3 years now and im doin just fine,im still in the process of adjusting, there are a lot of things to consider, now i have to think first before doin something even small things, i can't do things my way any more, i have to consider my wife now, and some times we get into a fight and the funny thing is we fight over small things, but eventually after a few minuits were ok again, i got married at 23 and my wife is only 18, thats why i im the one has the most adjustment to make, i still have to consider her decissions for the family, even thou i think otherwise, to all of you guys out there, think 100 times before you get married, marriage is not something you can throw out when it gets messy,
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4 responses
simplejoy
@simplejoy (359)
• China
18 Jan 07
i am not in a relationship so i dont know if i get ready to marriage,but i will get marriage one day. i think marriage is kinda responsibility,respect,and adjustment to the other half.Marriage is the best gift for women you love.
rbatarina13
@rbatarina13 (23)
• Philippines
19 Jan 07
thnx for the response
rbatarina13
@rbatarina13 (23)
• Philippines
19 Jan 07
thnx for the response
firemansgirl001
@firemansgirl001 (916)
• United States
18 Jan 07
I dont think I was ready to get married to my husband. Sure I loved him,but honestly I wasnt. I have two step kids and two of my own. We fight over the kids and how to raise them. Otherwise we dont fight much at all.
rbatarina13
@rbatarina13 (23)
• Philippines
19 Jan 07
you know you can still save your marriage, try to talk it over with your hubby, you know the best way to avoid fights is to communicate with your partner,
anup12
@anup12 (4177)
• India
19 Jan 07
Very good post man.You have presented marriage from a man's perspective which is seen seldom here.You are absolutely right when you say that marriage is an adjustment.I say marriage is an institution you need to learn things at regular intervals.
contusion12878
@contusion12878 (669)
• United States
18 Jan 07
I agree with you. Once your in a marriage your in a marriage. I dont believe in divorce. I took me a few years with my current girlfriend to see if i really want to get married or not but now I can safely say yes i am ready. I know she is ready, and everyone else is supporting us. But I have to ask her first. Good topic. Best of luck to you!
rbatarina13
@rbatarina13 (23)
• Philippines
19 Jan 07
go on ask her, be as honest as you can be when you pop the big question,, good luck !!!