marriage

Philippines
January 18, 2007 12:15am CST
i know someone who is cheating on his wife and because i'm a girl i feel sorry for her and really wanting it to tell her. but the problem is they are both my friends and i dont want to ruin their marriage just because of some girls. but he says those kinds of girls are only for fun and hes wife is the only one and it will pass away. eventhough its still not a reason to cheat. what can i possibly do? should i tell her or just let her know for herself?
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• India
18 Jan 07
despite the fact that they are your friends and u feel responsible, it may not be a good idea to interfere and end up spoiling things further. i'd say let them manage their affairs.
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• Philippines
18 Jan 07
thanks, maybe i'll do that.
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
I agree you should put everything in the correct perspective. I am quite sure that once the wife discovers that you know this you'll lose her as a friend. i think first you should tell the husband your plan to be fair if he stops the cheating then maybe you could compromise not to tell anymore but if he continues on it is better to tell the wife.
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