who causes a relationship to fail?is it the woman or the man?

@jhoanee (598)
Philippines
January 18, 2007 12:59am CST
just wanted to know how each one of us think about a broken relationship. im just wondering why does your relationship to your someone special ended up while you are still in love with him or her.do you think its bec. of us women or the guys? i know its not easy when your broken hearted but i also believe that time heal all wounds..
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11 responses
@alextki (923)
• India
25 Jan 07
I wont blame on a girl or guy for a broken relationship when they still in love. There are many factors for it. The circumstances is the one reason. The external forces might the other reason. Over expectation might be one more reason. Over possesiveness also a reason. hope you would agree with my points
@jhoanee (598)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
i agree to your points. i guess all of those points are factors why the relationship broke.
@luranski (171)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
the end of a relationship should not be blamed or not be attributable to just any one of them but to the failure of both of them. a relationship is a two-way street and not a one-way highway. it is up to the persons involved on how they make up a relationship.
@jhoanee (598)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
i guess your right in you point. its a two way street, both of two people involve should help each other to make it work. i guess if you truly and deeply love someone you will learn to adjust and make things just to make the relationship work..thanks for your response.
@mgr1987 (689)
• India
26 Jan 07
its their lack of understanding and also lacking the proper maturity to handle sensitive situations.
• Philippines
26 Jan 07
The causes of a breakup are both man and woman, sad to say that statistics show that majority is the fault of the man. I can see is that it all lacks communication and understanding thats all.
@wingho86 (85)
• Hong Kong
18 Jan 07
When a relationship broke up, both you and your partner did take a part of responsibility of it. Both of you have a choice to stay together or to broke up, you both have choice to sove the problem between you both or to stay the problem and escape by breaking the relationship.YOU BOTH HAVE CHOICE! But sometimes, we just have no method to sove our problem due to environmental constraints, so we choose to break up.That is our choice. I always remember someone says that "what you choose is best for you", this is now my believe! Anyway, it is not to find out who should bear the responsibility after breaking up. What you need to do is to heal yourself well. DONT stuck in the past!
@jhoanee (598)
• Philippines
28 Jan 07
i guess your right,,there no one to be blame coz both of you made a choice..what u need to do it to heal..i really agree on you..
@ladyjava (1184)
• Malaysia
28 Jan 07
it takes two to tango.. both parties must give effort for any relationship to work. when a relationship fails it's because one party stop trying to make it work... or simply give up.. someone can still be in love with someone else but sometimes love just aint enuff to make a relationship work.
• Nigeria
25 Jan 07
well failed relatioships can be blamed on both parties or eiher of them depending on the circumstance of the situation
@Rasnie (1135)
• Indonesia
18 Jan 07
It can cause from both site, from woman or man.It can cause by a lot of things, untrusted each other, one of the cheating, not understand each other etc.
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
I think you should not only blame it to one person - women / guys the cause of a broken relationship. remember the saying "it takes two to tango"? It will always be the fault of two person involved in the relationship.
@pix_trix (447)
• India
18 Jan 07
its not that only the woman or the man can spoil the relation... it can be any one of the two... whoever breaks trust... is not willing to cooperate... wil b the cause for such a thing!
@Monjoy (71)
• India
19 Jan 07
I think relationships fail because of both men and women.... women tend to exppect too much from thr spouse very soon,they have a certain idea in their mind about how a relationship should be and if things dont turn out to be that way they get upset very soon and they start whining. Whereas men take thr responsibility very seriously and they take thr girlfriends for granted and sometimes dont even show the kind of affection they used to... A relationship can be successful only if thr is absolute understanding between the two of them and there is communication between them apart from love that is...