Baby mama drama........
By goldinarms23
@goldinarms23 (23)
United States
January 18, 2007 5:01am CST
Can women give me an honest opinion. I had a child with a woman I a not with but she insist on not letting me see my child. I pay child support ( not to her standards of course) and I buy her anything she needs when she needs it all her mother has to do is ask. My wife is fine with my daughter so why is it when I want her to visit there is all these excuses that turn into a fight where she wants me out of our childs life? Oh and she has befriended my wife they talk all the time usually about the kids but when I get on the phone its WWIII. My wife says she is not over me but I don't think thats it. My wife will not get involved because she says that would be overstepping her boundries. My question I guess is how do you get a scorned women to compromise. I would like to settle things out of court.
2 responses
@glummy (193)
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
I'm a woman. In my honest opinion--as for what you've asked, you should try to communicate with her when both of you are in the mood to sort things out. If that doesn't help, I agree with the first comment. You should settle it through interference form another--mediation, or settle it in court. Thus, the court will determine whether or not you have the right to see the child. If you prove this in court, it will issue a judicial order in favor of you. Please be nice to the mother of your child.
