Sometimes I thought that I'll never fall in love again...
By stonehr
@stonehr (818)
Croatia (Hrvatska)
January 18, 2007 8:47am CST
I'm optimist at all times, but how years pass that sense from time to time appear in my mind. But the fact is that we are in 30th ages built individuals and that we've sometime fell in love without consideration. People says that love is to love partner's failing. Today I ask myself is it fair to live with these same failings in what I've sometimes fell in love. Today I'm thinking to much about all and everything and when I want to relax always some fear prevail inside me with stupid questions, what if that, what if this..
But I'm lucky person because I'm only sometimes thought that I'll never fell in love again.
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48 responses
@balaji_civil (190)
• India
19 Jan 07
love is evil, if you are looking for sentiment's .love comes from one's own inner feeling it will not come just like that...
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@margieanneart (26423)
• United States
18 Jan 07
Each day is a blessing from above. No matter what it brings, you are here and healthy. Love comes in many forms, when you least expect it. Live for today, for that is all we really have. Do not dwell on the yesterdays, they cannot be undone. Hope for the tomorrows, as they may or many not come. When you have your love, just accept them as is. Faults and all. Are any of us perfect? Love and live my friend.
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@margieanneart (26423)
• United States
22 Jan 07
I wish you blessings my dear. Your love will show up when you least expect it. Thank you for best response, I appreciate it.
@margieanneart (26423)
• United States
20 Jan 07
When the time is right, and the ideal person is there for you, it will happen. Just enjoy your blessings now, and when you least expect it, your love will come again.
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@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
27 Jan 07
Look I fell in love when I were 30. And my boyfriend was 37 when he fell in fatal love with me :DDD I may say this love is much more stronger, and nicer than I felt ever. Because I am smarter. Both of us has many experiences in love, and in life too. I was always sure,that this love was waiting for me. I lived alone for many years. I was sad for many years. I did not trust in any men for many years. But I needed the many years to notice who is for me.
Good luck!
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@melrosepink (111)
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
Its difficult to manipulate our heart when we fell in love. But who knows? We can't even blame gravity in falling in love.
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@trysameer (219)
• India
19 Jan 07
i also feel like the same...! i've also suffered from a lot of betrayals in my life too..! and really, once upon there was a time that really i was so borken that, i m not having anyone with me to rely upon..! but slowly, i ripped and now i also decided, that i"ll never fall in love again dear..! and now i think, that this is da best decision of my life..!
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@Kangleicha (376)
• India
19 Jan 07
I think along those lines too. When I get hurt or when something goes wrong, or when love demands too much, I think that I will never fall in love again. But when someone comes I forget that and jumps into a relationship without thinking twice. Maybe that is why I get hurt so much in love.
@ashraine (178)
• Philippines
20 Jan 07
dont be like that dude.. dont be afraid to love and be loved.. one thing to overcome your attitude, JUST LOVE and DO ALL THE things you wanted to do with your GIRL and NOT EXPECTING to GET any from HER..!
dont be afraid to be dumped and to fail in lovelife..
KEEP loving..! SPREAD your LOVE dude...!
just always tell yourself that ITS NOT YOUR LOSS if SOMEONE's dump you..! ITS THEIR LOSS!!=)
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@kalyan_janaki (1)
• India
19 Jan 07
i feel that decisions taken by u is perfectly right. what i say is there is no matter of love in age of education. its only infactuation.see people fall in love they forget every thing and even there acdemic works and they continously start chatting an dwaste time. slowly after some times these things lead to quarrels and the both of them loose their mind. i dont hate people who fell in love but what i say is from my own experience
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@cliks4fun (166)
• India
19 Jan 07
Some years back I thought same like you that I'll never fell in love.. but now I'm in love with a great and nice person... we should have a person to share our feelings and life.. We cann't a particulat time or age for love.. that may at any time with any one..
@imahustler999 (119)
• Singapore
19 Jan 07
In the words of shakespeare:
love loks not with the eyes, but with the mind;
and therefore is wind'd cupid painted blind:
nor hath loves mind of any judgement taste;
winds and no eyes figure unheedy haste:
and therefore is love said to be a child,
because in choice he is so oft beguiled.
Now at first your probably thinking...wtf?
but what he is saying is:
cupid is painted winged and blind
but love has bad judgment and taste
wings and no sight is reckless
which is why he is said to be a child
for all the wrong and bad decisions made.
just remember cupid always breaks and makes promises, so dont worry if you make bad decisions thats love for you, but just follow your heart, follow your mind and dont force anything..love will find you and if it doesnt you must persue it a litle but not too much. :)
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@nutcase222 (676)
• India
19 Jan 07
Each day comes with new hope and new energy. be positive and stop thinking worthless things. Think about your work, think about the time u liked in passed. and keep enggage yourself in creative things.
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@vintage_blowout (277)
• Philippines
19 Jan 07
Love isn't always about pleasurable feelings and sugar-coated words. Feelings are fleeting. Love is a decision to stay and make it work even when the sugar coating is gone.
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@Summeradam14 (8)
• Philippines
19 Jan 07
you can never tell. only your heart will know. dont close your doors.I've been with the same feeling for 8 years, but, here i am know, very much happy with my partner and my very adorable baby-they are such a blessing.time will really come and everything will fall in the right place and the right time.Just be patient. Someone is born for you out there.
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