Secrets...Do you wish to keep them?

Yes, I agree secrets can be a burden, but I can keep them for a very long time. If they're troubling me too much though, and making me depressed, I will share my own secrets with one other person, whom I trust, implicitly, not to repeat what I've said. However, when it comes to keeping secrets of other people, which I have been entrusted with, I will never utter a word unless they ask me to. I value the fact that they have trusted me enough to tell me, and therefore, I won't break that trust.

You have to keep the secrets because that means you are true to keep your word. And I think this is very important in life.

only 1% of humans can keep any secret they're told to keep. And they ultimately become CIA agents. For others, if it is a secret, we'll have to tell someone, or we'll feel uncomfortable

Yeah for me its the same. Keeping secret with me and not telling it to anyone I feel abit uncomfortable and I also cant keep them unshared for too long period. I do loose them shortly.

"secrets" its an intresting topic to discuss.we all has secrets of our own which may be of personal or official.but to keep it as such is a type of hard job.while we are keeping some secrets we feel we are losing our mind power, some time we feel our secrets has been expossed while we go through some circumstances.but it is thrill to keep secrets in mind and i has alots of secrets to tell in my mind both personal and official.

hi kritipen...................... secret.......! in this word itself the answer is also thr... while u share it u should not take it as a secret.. it seems to b burden but the result of keeping secrets secretely ll b high........... so secrets should b kept safely........

In spite of that with me when getting the message from sameone to keep a secret then for me that was the big message and really was difficult to be able to hold the secret stayed safe in our brain, so I will not accept anything from someone the friend or ralatives to keep their secret.

yes i do for sure..they are my dignity..

I always keep my secret to myself. I've never really told anyone about most of the things. I keep them all to myself. There were times, many years ago when i was a kid and i thought and felt that i needed someone for every secret that i got, so that i have a place to rely on if something goes wrong. But i let out secrets and things to the wrong people. Then i know the best thing is to just keep everything to myself, be it how difficult as it could get. I went on YEARS with this principle. And after many years, i realized it's not the best thing to do. You "do" need someone, if you trust them enough, and if the secret is worth sharing with, then go ahead.

I keep secrets and if I couldn't hold it in, I talk to my friend(the one that gave me the secret) about it and talk things over. Especially if the secrets are about infidelity or about things which are darker. They trust me to keep them hence the friendship is strengthened. They are not a curse :D They are actually blessings since friends who ask you to keep secrets trust you.

Well I am very good at keeping secrets that most of the people who know me very well have trusted their most delicate secrets with me. No I have never divulged anybody s secrets because if I do so then How will it be a secret??? It would also disrupt the trust that people have in me.

I like to think I am good at keeping secrets, but I can understand why some people (myself included) have a burning desire to share them with other people. When someone tells you a secret they put you in a priveliged position which comes with an air of superiority...you know something that no-one else knows...yet to fully feel this superiority we must share the secret with others, otherwise the superior position we are placed in by being told the secret is never fully realised. It's like getting top grades in a test but not been able to tell anyone.

I don't like keep secrets. They are normally dark secrets, things that you never wish disclose because you think something horrid will happen. Then when you disclose because the burden is too much you realise it was not such a horrid response to the horrible secret. I suffered abuse and never told a soul until after a counselling session I bit the bullet and told my Mother. She was very supportive and my old fears of being called a liar or thrown out did not happen.

I'm good in keeping secrets. oh!! i disclosed it!!! have u heard this? "a secret between two is a secret of god! a secret between three is everybodys' secret!!"

same with me, i cant keep a secret for my self, its a burden for me and i cant keep stopping to think about it every single time. when i have a secret or a problem i always tell my friend or my mother to have some advice, so i know what kind of action that match for me. but there is a secret that i'm not telling to someone. its not a burden for me, its just that i want to keep it for my self ^^

lol...you are not a good secrets keeper.for me ,i do not know how to say myself.i just can say,i am a good secrets keeper,as when my friend or someone told me that not to tell others about his story,i never betray a word,and will keep secret for them.but i will say i am not a good secrets keeper,as i often talk about my own story to others,and i would tell my secrets to my friends.so ,i feel that ,i am a pure person before them.

yes, i am agree with you i always share something with my wife but i always keep my friends secrets but i don't think thats a curse

my friends trust me when it comes to keeping secrets. whenever they tell me something that's supposed to be kept as a secret,it's just as if i never heard anything. But when it comes to my own secrets, just like you i find them as burdens and i really have to share it with at least one person.

Yeah completely!! Even i think the same way as u do ... for me keeping secrets is a nig job.i cant keep them up to me and always have that anxiety factor about it.So the best thing is to share them with someone.So i share all the secrets of my life with my girlfriend.I trust her more then my life and i know she will not spill it out to anyone so i tell her everything In this way the information doesn't go out and is not limited to me

Of course i wish to keep them, maybe i said that i must and have to keep them. Secret is something that someone else trust it to you. So you must keep it not to tell it to others as the one who gives you this secret has trust you, you mustn't betrayed them. I always try my best to keep other people secret, 'cause they have trust me so i will not betrayed them. No, i don't think secret is a curse. I pretend it as a give, you must be happy if someone give you a secret that means they believe you, they trust you.