Good looking or smart?
By magda_lena88
@magda_lena88 (179)
Romania
24 responses
@mysiraylon (1102)
• United States
18 Jan 07
I think you are right, and I definitely agree
wit you miss magda_lena88. If a lady looks for
a good looking man and not for smart one then
lots of man will lose her attention including me.
@mysiraylon (1102)
• United States
18 Jan 07
You're welcome, thank you and I don't wanna
lose your attention too!!!
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@pelya178 (693)
• United States
18 Jan 07
thats a good question. i went out with this really really hot guy once...like model hot lol he actually did model a couple of times. anyway it was all looks. he wasnt very bright n so it sucked major a$$. we couldnt talk about anything n he just really didnt care to talk about things. so yeah id go for brains not looks
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@blackaquea (313)
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
the worse part about that is you have to worry about every woman drooling over your guy as you stroll around in places.
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@rosie_123 (6113)
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21 Jan 07
I definately prefer smart. Of course if they're good looking too then it's a bonus - but looks fade with age as you say. I want a man who I can talk to and have a laugh with - who shares my interests and my sense of humour, and who has a good job and earns good money too! I am lucky that I have one!
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@armeentin (32)
• Pakistan
21 Jan 07
Id go for both :D... a lil on the smarter side tho... a whole lot more.. i wud rather be with a guy with whom i can have a conversation rather than a goodlooking BLOND!
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@purohit_86 (57)
• India
21 Jan 07
hey magda_lena i agree with u , ur half way right , but not make it full , like go for good look man with smartness , huh not difficult to find them , just keep on trying
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@limcyjain (3516)
• India
18 Jan 07
i would certainly opt for a smart man. Mine is one. He is also good looking but if you have only ne option then go for smart. This would pay in the long run as life cannot be lived on good looks.
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@inspired4fr33 (350)
• United States
18 Jan 07
Id like a blend of both of course, but smarts would attract me more in the long run.
@mayomagic101 (252)
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
i agree with you, what will you do with a good looking person if he's nonsense. so i'd go with the smart guy.
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@blackaquea (313)
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
i'd prefer a smart man. a smart man could take you to places. and you could talk about anything and everything under the sun. whereas looks? they kill a person! they really can! they'd deceive you and get you going around in circles.
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@pillze (118)
• Romania
21 Jan 07
well, wouldn't it be perfect if we could say both? :) But if I would have to pick, i would definetly go for smart, and if i may add, funny too! To be honest i never was into good looking people, and i believe that a person can be beautiful no matter how he/she looks! Inner beauty is the real beauty!
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@grayxenon (1313)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
i doesnt matter as long as you love each other..ideals do not usually come into reality..
@since_before (106)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
Thats true no matter what he looks like right? as long as you really feel mutual understanding in the name of love you'll be happy
@pillze (118)
• Romania
21 Jan 07
well, wouldn't it be perfect if we could say both? :) But if I would have to pick, i would definetly go for smart, and if i may add, funny too! To be honest i never was into good looking people, and i believe that a person can be beautiful no matter how he/she looks! Inner beauty is the real beauty!
@magda_lena88 (179)
• Romania
21 Jan 07
there is no such thing as perfect. i agree,inner beauty is more important. :) thanks for your great answer.
@since_before (106)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
in smart and good looking I prefered them both But if i chosse only one i prfered the smart one for you can trust her/him that wouldnt make you be in trouble for smart people stay away in trouble.
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
30 Mar 11
We can always be ourselves, we have some real people and normal, we have provided a balanced life is to learn the essence of this life: to communicate, to understand it the one near us and especially his unconcealed love looking under the folds misleading.
Be forgiven my tone too corny, but I try to send a hard to put into words. We used to see that every day life as something very sophisticated.
It may seem crude, but even I wonder what women are so delicate, complex, mysterious men who can love more banal? Trivial, is enough said. How do women love men who do not deserve? I can not think in this case to me, what was once, what was eventually forgiven and moved on. But to get over ...
Maybe my mistake is somewhere that men do not take part and can not say what they want to hear, and to be honest not really too are words of praise to them. I'm not saying women are perfect, the best, most of all, but if the man would be a bit more careful, more courageous, less vain, conceited and how are you want, I would have been hard to do a nice gesture for them. There are people and people and even to understand this, but what good if when you meet in your life a good kick? Perhaps one should meditate on this ...