Do you get wrong for what i mean in my discussion?

Indonesia
January 18, 2007 2:25pm CST
I start a discussion say "i have crush on my sister girlfriend. What should i do?" and i have say "can i have them both?" and they have misunderstanding for what i mean. I only say what i have feel right now. I love my girlfriend but since she has busy with her work and go often to other town i have spend my day with her sister lately. Something happen then. I like her. It's hard for me to pick one of them right now. I want them both. But, sure i can not have them both. It's just more like situation that i have not what i want. I hope you can understand what i'm trying to say and for the problems i have right now. Sorry for my bad english that cause this misunderstanding. I sad when someone respond to my first discussion and say "i'm crazy" "pervert" or "i believe you just want a reply". Sorry again...i closed this discussion and closed my first discussion about this problems. i don't want other to respond about that topic. it's hurt me when you want to share your problem and having bad thing for a reply.
2 responses
• United States
18 Jan 07
So are you saying you like both your girlfriend and HER sister?
• Indonesia
18 Jan 07
Yes. That's situation that i have right now. It sound crazy but it's make me canfuse right now. Maybe this is temporary and will disappear by the time. I hope.
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• United States
18 Jan 07
I've been in that situation before, and I know that it is not fun. What you really need to do is do what's going to make YOU happy. It is never fun to hurt someone's feelings, or to tell them that you do not like them, but you have to do what is in your own best interest. Find out who is going to make you happy and who is the one that completes you. You might even find that it's neither your girlfriend or her sister! Love is very unpredictable ;)
@missyd79 (3438)
• United States
18 Jan 07
okay here is where the misunderstand happened. you said i have a crush on my sister's girlfriend and can i have them both. meaning you want both your sister and her girlfriend, which is just gross, but what you mean to say is i have a crush on my girlfriend's sister! total different things.
• Indonesia
18 Jan 07
oo...i see..thanks for that correction. Thanks a lot