How can I get my husband to get me pragnet again?
By motherof2
@motherof2 (8)
United States
3 responses
@rick615 (413)
• United States
18 Jan 07
First you need to understand why he does not want anymore children. If you already do, maybe you could share that with us. I think before you go about trying to change someone's mind, you should be sure that that is the right thing to do. I feel uncomfortable giving advice on how to get him to come around if he has a perfectly good reason not to want to have more kids.
Have you thought about sitting down and going over each other's reasons for having and not having children. Maybe after doing this, both of you can undeerstand the other better. Maybe one of you will change their mind, maybe even you. :-)
@motherof2 (8)
• United States
18 Jan 07
Thank you for the advise. I don't know why he does not want more kids. I will try to find out tonight when he comes home from work.
@stacy624 (2776)
• Canada
18 Jul 07
Maybe give it some time and he may change his mind. There is a reason (s) why he may feel this way. Talking with him is your best bet and maybe you can understand where he is coming from and you both can compromise. I wish you all the best and hope that you both can come to an equal decision.
Best wishes
Stacy
@thunderofsins (738)
• United States
7 Feb 07
If your husband does not want any more children then you should respect that and not try to change his mind. Children are a lot of work, responsibility and money! If he feels that two is enough for him then two is enough.
You didn't say how old your children are. Perhaps he just doesn't want any more children right now, if that is the case wait a few years and talk to him about children again.
When someone decides that they do not want kids or do not want anymore kids then their partner needs to respect that.
My husband would like to have 2-3 biological children. I want only 1. We are currently pregnant with that one and after this I will be getting a tubal ligation and we will be adopting 1-2 more children. I understand that my husband wants more children, but he understands that I don't. The person who does NOT want more children needs to "win" in this situation. Sorry. :\