Why do girls/boys always go after the good looking boys/girls?
@scarfaceboston (869)
Romania
January 18, 2007 3:50pm CST
Why do girls/boys always go after the good looking boys/girls and don't give a chance to the one that are intelligent or have other qualityes then good looks?
I'm not saying that saying that "good" looking guys or girls don't have any brains. I don't whant to a irritate any one, I just ask a question that a lot of people ask after they have been rejected by a person who looks hot or they finished a relationship with a "good" looking boy/girl and realized that he/she hadn't nothing in common.
I rather have some one that I could talk to and have a lot in common with her but someone who looks hot but with who I can talk to. I could only stay and look at her.
I look foward to see your responses.
"The beauty is in the eye of the beholder"
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9 responses
@nicu1985 (587)
• Romania
2 Feb 07
Not my case dude! That was my point too in the past: to find a hot sexy lady but not eny more. I've looked for a girl who understand me and the faith gave me a cute looking girl with all I've dreamed about. If someoane only look at the appearence I think it will got disappointed when will know better that person.
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@scarfaceboston (869)
• Romania
3 Feb 07
I started this disscussion because one of my best friends allways looks for hot boys and every time she gets born. She puts a lot of heart in every relantionship and when it ends she cryes and tells herself that this is the last time. That's until she finds another hot boy and the same things happens.
Now she found a very smart and romantic boy, his perfect for her, and they are starting to fall in love. It's great. I'm so happy for her.
I'm glad that you found your lady...
Thank you for responding.
Have a nice day...
@masca11 (320)
• Romania
21 Jan 07
In our days its hard to become someone so nice looking girls with beautiful body only date rich boys it doesn't mater how beautiful he is or how ugly as log as he has a nice looking car and some money in bank a nice house and rich parents. Don't tell me that is not true because i have for exemple a hole highschool and a lot of friends with money how take advantage of girls like that, and they had a lot of girls. Not everyone is like that but big part of the majority is.
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@scarfaceboston (869)
• Romania
21 Jan 07
I have to agree with you, I know a lot of persons that do this.
"Money makes he world go around"
Thank you for responding.
Take care.
@freesoul (3021)
• Egypt
14 Feb 07
It's true but for most people as they get older they become more mature and think beyond the "skin deep" beauty..It's a shame that for many people money not personality is what can compensate for "good looks".. over all, men are usually more obsessed with beauty then women but it's sad that many people must get burned and hurt before they start to think right..
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@moto47 (555)
• Indonesia
7 Feb 07
Hey, I think everybody judge the others by the 1st sight. So, what you said is not false, but we, humans, naturally will be attracted to the "better" ones. However, sooner or later we'll find out the TRUE personality after becoming friends. Maybe if someone go after the good looking ones, it's just for "fun" ?
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@nishikanta (607)
• India
19 Jan 07
yes beauty lies in de eye of bholder y u bcum disgress of urself...........dnt look down alys look up..think ursflf more thje, one else ther will elys b some1 ther watin 4 u..................god never make single pair dnt worry ur prionce is there 4 u
@scarfaceboston (869)
• Romania
21 Jan 07
Thank you, but I didn't relegate to me.
I was asking in general.
Thank you for responding.
Take care!
@Ryla_21 (10)
• Romania
7 Feb 07
I can't tell you why they do that but in my opinion you have to know the boy's/girl's soul because that the most important for me:the soul beauty not the body beauty.
But to get to know a person so good I mean to know his soul you have to get one chance from that person and you have to know to profit of that chance.
If you see one good looking girl you may want to have a relationship with her and it's verry difficult if she gives you one chance but after that she poke fun on you.You don't want to lose her because you like her very much and you pass over every bad thing she do to you.
If she hsd given you one chance I think she must take that seriously and be good to you because she can fall in love with you any time.Because love don't care about your opinion it do what she want to do with you even you maibe don'y want that.
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
•
3 Feb 07
the human being is shallow and will chase after what he or she considers to be visually attractive, it is only later that we realise that looks fade but a good mind stays for ever
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@bogdyyyyy (380)
• Romania
27 Jan 07
Because this are the humans style today . We have to accept this thing.
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