Love Can we live with it? or without it

United States
January 18, 2007 5:22pm CST
Uh oh, there is that word that can make us have butterflies or can make us feel like we should jump off a cliff. Love. Being raised in a house full of women. me and my brother has seen and been taught what love should be , but i feel as though the only way to learn is to go through the thing myself. To me being apart of this generation, ive heard of some crazy things that people feel that love is, but i cant judge them i only just go off what i feel it is. To me Love is something that no one should go without. Love is caring, and giving all that you can give beyond means. If you have love between man and woman or what ever you prefer. I bet you found yourself at one point, as they say "playing the fool" at one point. But your not the only one. Everyone has been bitting by the love bug only to crash at the end. But there is someone out there is gonna love you just as much as you love them. i know at times we feel like the one we was in love with that wasnt in love with us was our one and only, but later on we find the one that is just as better. But what i think love is with a mate is that, If you love them you wouldn't try to hurt them, put them down about their insecurities,laugh at them when they are in pain. You wouldnt try to make them feel unloved or undesired or ugly or anything. you would want to make them feel wanted, cared for at all times. just give a kiss or a hug or maybe even some gifts just because. a relationship is what 2 people makes its. and please for the sake of the relationship dont bring friends in the mix of what you have, because sometimes the friends you bring in can really screw things up or may even take them. but when it comes to something thats worth holding on too and is the best thing in your life then i feel that you should go for it. Love is better than any worth of money, gold , cars , and all. because one day all those things will be gone, or in the hands of another but true love wont be, itll stay in the heart and lives of who really appreciates it. alot of times we confuse love with infacuation or lust. and sometimes we just want it so bad we dont care how it comes to us. but one things for sure when the times comes dont pass it up go for it. But some people are bitter from the past relationships they been in and it takes time to adjust to building something with them. It just how things work. its not that they are trying to take things out on you just takes time for them to get used to something new and better. its like if u came from a rough town to a better one, you will still have your guard up because you dont know what to expect. so what do you think about love?
1 response
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
18 Jan 07
I think we can all live with it or without it, we can all cope either way but it does make life look sunnier with it.