would u date a woman with kids
@tynishabarnes (51)
United States
January 18, 2007 7:05pm CST
would u at age 22 date a woman who was 22 with two kids by the same man, and she was once married to this man. how would u react if u liked her but she came out and told u after u had feeling for her that she had two kids and both of u are 22? do u think it is differnet for a woman with kids to find a man than a man with kids to find a girlfriend?
2 responses
@sunilwason (172)
• India
19 Jan 07
I would definitely date the woman I like, Kids are not trouble, they are angels. Its my life and if I have to live with the girl I want to, then why not love her that way she is.
@PoeTalker (715)
• United States
19 Jan 07
Honestly, I wouldn't date a woman or man with children until I was about hmm... 29 or 30 years old. Any younger than that, the whole situation will make everything complicated and have way to many attachments and baggage. For an older person, it would be acceptable because by then you would both have children of your own. At 22, it's obvious the children were a mistake and so money would be a popular issue. Money and time are the biggest stressors on relationships and unexpected children add a disasterous ingredient to the relationship. If you are 22 however, and he is over 29 it will be okay, any younger than that and it will turn out as a disaster. You might want a good fatherly figure for your children, and need support but it usually is a bad idea. Think about it...
@tynishabarnes (51)
• United States
19 Jan 07
wow....i have two kids and im 22 and none of my children were a mistake, they were planned but likewise i am married. but if i were to get divoreced nice to see what ppl think. why do u think money would be an issue and who said anyhting about needing a father figure for your kids...let me resay this ?
if u were 22 and found out that ur girlfriend or someone u realy liked was 22 with two kids would u date her? she was married at one point and she has her own career and the father of the children takes care of the kids emtionaly and gives money wise....would u date here? there is no need for u to play daddy or give any of ur money to support thses kids because there father plays a great role in there lives.
