letting go of a relationship....
By 007Bond1974
@007Bond1974 (881)
Philippines
January 19, 2007 6:20am CST
im 32 now but and im in a relationship(only my second)...my girl is in dubai right now working there as we prepare for our planned marriage....she was away for 2 years now.couple of days back my ex girlfriend called me up,i really didnt know from where she got my new number...our relationship lasted for 7 years and shes a doctor now...i felt this sensation of excitement when i heared her voice maybe because we did not have a formal break up.since then the vision of her keeps coming back in my mind...and she keeps calling...i really felt guilty entertaining her as i already have some one in my life,and i alraedy told her bout my situiation...now she wants to meet me...she told me she missed me...i really cant dump her invitation coz i have to admit,we had a beautiful relationship before...how can i tell her that its over for us and to let me be?i really want to tell her straight,but im afraid to hurt her feelings as well...im not a rude guy...im just afraid of whats goin to happen...need advice guys...
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4 responses
@schulhelm2007 (21)
• Philippines
19 Jan 07
boy try to be steadfast in your new reletionship if you love your new girl...i myself am a guy who cant stand hurting wemen specially so those who had been a part of my past...but try to tell her in a nice and mature way your feelings...i believe that she being a doctor at that would understand what you are implying...or what you want her to do...but first try to understand what she really wants...you might accidentally jump into conclusion and may misunderstood her action...ok...goodluck.
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@007Bond1974 (881)
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
thankd sir for the advice...it realy is good to hear an sound advice from an experienced person of your age...i rated you as best reply coz your advice is in parallel with my intentions,though i didnt know how to do it at first,but thanks to you i alrady got an idea...i hope some of our friends would share thier opinion in this situation...so that they mey learn if they haopen to be in the same situation like mine.peace friend(SHALOM)
@007Bond1974 (881)
• Philippines
28 Jan 07
sir are you from holland?ive been there last month...i saw one of your posted discussion in this site....we where at leksmonhof last month...that name souds familiar...are you from around leksmonhof too?
@007Bond1974 (881)
• Philippines
28 Jan 07
sir are you from holland?ive been there last month...i saw one of your posted discussion in this site....we where at leksmondhof last month...that name souds familiar...are you from around leksmondhof too?
@ylimeloka (40)
• India
30 Jun 07
If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to LET IT GO!!!If you are holding on to past hurts and pains ... LET IT GO!!!
@lean_rose (262)
• Philippines
11 Jul 07
It's really difficult really..but when you don't tell her now, that will cause a big problem in the future, maybe your ex girfriend will undrstand why, in that way she will realize that what she's doing was wrong, just explain to her clearly that you don't mean to hurt her. May God bless you.
