What would you do if...

forcing yourself to someone you do not love will be an agony on your part and suffering on your partner. if this happens you have to let go..that's how beautiful and ironic love can be.

hi cheerldr. if i fell out of love with someone i would have to let go i'm afraid. you could stay with the person and pretend everything is ok but in the long run you will only make things worse as you will get unhappier by the day and hurt the person more without knowing! i imagine it is not a very nice experience but just one of those things in life but i have seen unhappy couples together and i tell you i would rather be single and happy! let love rule!

when you fall out of love you have to have the courage to say it to your partner..but first, i think that you should have deep thoughts about it..why did you lose it, what's wrong..those kind of thoughts..and if all your answers leads your relationship to trash, then i suggest you end it as soon as possible..but if there's this piece of you that says maybe you could still make it..then talk about it..start from scratch..^_^ tell your partner to court you again or if you're a boy look for the things that will make you remember the love you used to have..

I never get this kind of thought before.Alright,if i felt im lack in love with that person,i will straight forward tell him what is the reason that i act this way and seek him for a brake/clash.If you have no feelings for your lover,it is not wise to still go on pretending like you love him right.It is a kind of betrayal also.Never ever give a fake love to someone.Love must come from the ottom of your heart/deep inside your heart.

It depends I think. I know people who are stuck together because of bills, debt, etc. They may not love each other anymore, but they're stuck together. For myself, I think I would stay with him unless he didn't love me too. He'd do anything for me, he makes me happy and he always makes me laugh which wouldn't dissapear just because my love did.

well, I would think about reasons why I do not love my partner. After confirming with myself and realizing that the path ahead will be unrewindable, i would softly let my partner down.

Ill tell him im letting go to save us both the insanity of being together even if we dont love each other anymore

Coming up with an answer to that very same question put me in the hospital for over six weeks with a nervous breakdown. Long story short, my father abondoned my mother with three children and your's truly still in the womb... and to leave what had become for me a loveless marriage, tore me apart inside believing I was doing to my children what my father had done to me. Whereas my father left and never looked back... I never laid eyes on the man until just prior to his passing when I was twenty-five years of age... it took me a very long time to realize I was NOT repeating the process... because from the moment of our separation I have always been there for my children... not only paying support, but taking them into my home every weekend and being a huge part of their lives!