Are you a prisoner to your cell phone?

United States
October 6, 2006 1:28am CST
I see people in their cars with their cell phones up to their ears. They are walking down the street talking on their cell phones. In grocery lines. They can't carry on a face to face conversation because they are talking on their cell phones. Is this necessary? What did we do before there were cell phones? I thought cell phones were for emergencies! Even small children are alwasy on the phone. A number of accidents are caused because people are not paying attention. They are on the phone! What did we do before the cell phone? Are you a prisoner to your cell phone? Can you live without your cell phone? What would you do if cell phones were banned tomorrow?
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19 responses
@rishurock (167)
• India
16 Oct 06
yes i am a prisoner of my cell.if i dont use it half an hour i feel restless
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• United States
21 Oct 06
Thank you for your response. RISHUROCK. You say you feel restless. Is that as in worried and uneasy? What are your concerns? What do you think can happen? Who do you call? How long do you talk?
• India
17 Oct 06
Me too... even I can not live without it... its become a major part of my life to stay connected with family and friends most times..
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• United States
21 Oct 06
Thank you for your response. EUNICEDOSS. Is it because of the convenience of having your cell phone with you? Is it because you can call at a time that works best for you and your friends and family? Why carry on these extemded conversations in public, crowded places?
@neon2000 (2756)
• Philippines
16 Oct 06
Not today but before, I can't go out and make my day without my cellphone with me.
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• United States
16 Oct 06
Thank you for your response. I, too, feel that connection with my cell phone. I have a fear of being without it - like what if something happens and I can't call
@neon2000 (2756)
• Philippines
17 Oct 06
Thanks! greetings to you!
@limosonia1 (1559)
• United States
3 Feb 07
I honestly can't say that I would be ok with out having a cell phone but I don't talk while I am in a line of at a restaurant I will answer but ask to call back when I am done. I think it is rude to talk while someone else is waiting on you. My cell phone has become a part of my life because of work and wanting to be in touch with my kids.
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• United States
7 Feb 07
Once you get used to that feeling of security that comes with knowing you can reach someone right away no matter what, it is hard to let go. It doesn't matter if you ever use your phone, it is just knowing that you can, if you need to do so. This is especially true when it comes to our family. I like that you are courteous and respectful of others in your usage. It would be so nice if more were like you.
@freak369 (5113)
• United States
5 Feb 07
I have one friend that sleeps with his phone, yes, sleeps WITH his phone. I rarely take mine with me when I leave the house because I have voice mail. I'll take it with me if I am expecting a call but there are days when it never rings and I'm fine with that. Text messaging is popular and I get free in messages, ten cents to send. I can hop on Yahoo and send them or go to the website of the carrier and send one there for free if I am running low on phone credits. If someone is in line chatting up a storm I walk around them and pop my food on the cashier tray, sure that ticks them off but they are wasting me time.
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• Philippines
6 Feb 07
it wouldn't matter one bit if cell phones got banned. There's always the traditional home phone. Besides I get paranoid when the texting pattern breaks. I always assume there's something wrong.
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• United States
7 Feb 07
Don't you think cell phones are a convenience when you are in your car and you have a flat tire or other car trouble? Or if you are away from home and an emergency comes up? It adds new meaning to the term "Call me anytime."
@merkava (1225)
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
Thankfully no. I don't even have a post paid plan for my phone. I just use it merely for texting to friends and family. I rarely make phone calls. I'm not like other people who are so addicted to their phones and are so fanatic about them that within every 2 months they change their cellphones eventhough they didn't even know how to use the previous ones the owned.
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• United States
7 Feb 07
LOL. That's when the cell phone gets to be a status symbol. You pay a lot more for that. Usually upgrading to new phones come with more money or an extended contract for service.
@plasma (673)
• India
31 Oct 06
Partly. It's become an integral part of anytime communication. But I try utmost not to get hooked onto it. Actually, you would notice that people use it more as a companion and avoid loneliness or appear busy. So, sometimes it more psychological cause than the need.
• United States
8 Nov 06
Thank you for your response. I think you are right. When you listen to some of the conversations that you can't help but overhear, you can tell they are conversations that could easily wait for later. It's not even about stopping for milk on the way home.
@Ljorge (1487)
• United States
31 Oct 06
LOL i am not a prisoner but i am on it often.
• United States
9 Nov 06
Thank you for your response.
@zuri25 (2125)
• United States
31 Oct 06
No, I am not a prisoner to my cell phone. In fact, I wouldn't even have one if I didn't have a child. I don't like the idea of never being unavailable. But, I understand that cell phones are neccessary in this day and age.
• United States
8 Nov 06
Thank you for your response. It started out as a necessity, but I think I have to admit that now I am addicted to the darned thing. I use it as a crutch. I don't talk on it every second as some people do, but I certainly want it in my pocket and fully charged.
@Sorathian (4329)
• Pakistan
8 Nov 06
Not exactly a prisoner but my cell phone is my companion wherever i go... However, it doesn't ring much neither i make hundreds of phone calls daily... i keep it to be in touch with my colleagues and friends
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• United States
9 Nov 06
Thank you for your response. Interesting that you do all of the calling. Is there anything to that? Not trying to psycho-analyze or anything, but what if you did not call some of these people for a few days, would they call you? How important is it for you to call them so much on your cell rather than on a land line?
@cobb1121 (126)
• United States
31 Oct 06
Oh yes! Its my only phone so I cannot live without it. I take it everywhere I go.
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• United States
8 Nov 06
Thank you for your response. I considered getting rid of the land line, but have not had the courage to do it. The bill collectors get the land line number. My friends get the cell number. LOL.
@chance00 (3331)
• United States
9 Nov 06
not since i threw it away.it is like a tracking device
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• United States
9 Nov 06
Thank you for your response. LOL. Now that takes courage! Just throw it away! Wow! I can't imagine! Murder cases have been solved with some information from cell phones! According to CSI, even less than that!
@MakDomMom (1474)
• United States
31 Oct 06
I agree that children should not have cell phones. It drives me crazy to see a child pull one out to call for a ride. I don't know what I would do without mine - since it is always with me.
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• United States
9 Nov 06
Thank you for your response. I felt that way too about children having phones until my sister-in-law explained it to me differently. The cell phone is a way for parents to stay connected to their children. It can also be a safety measure if children have to walk home alone or find themselves in a difficult situation thru no fault of their own. With both parents working, it is important for children to know they can reach one of their parents whenever they need someone. My nephew is involved in all sorts of after-school activities that sometimes require coordination. It is equally important for children to learn that the cell phone is not a toy. It is to be used only for emergencies. My sister-in-law did not buy my nephew's cell phone as a gift. She bought it just as she would any item he needed for school. When she bought it, she set down specific guidelines and conditions of use so my nephew would understand the significance of what he was getting. One sensible thing she did is purchase a phone with a limited number of minutes per month. He does not talk on the phone for hours with his friends. He says he wants to save his minutes for emergencies. I think he ran out of minutes the first month or two that he had the phone. After sitting on empty for a week or two, he realized he had to conserve. I am happy to say he is a very responsible user, an "A" student and a top athlete at his school (pardon me while I brag).
@_hope_ (3902)
• Australia
8 Nov 06
no . luse my phone to stay in contact with my kids
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• United States
9 Nov 06
Thank you for your response.
@dellion (6698)
• Malaysia
16 Oct 06
No, I didn't come into that situations yet. I mainly will have a very short neccessary conversations only.
• United States
16 Oct 06
Thank you for your response. Short necessary conversations make sense to me.
@aquarian83 (1944)
• United States
20 Oct 06
i cannot live without my cell phone
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• United States
21 Oct 06
Thank you for your response. It is funny how we become attached to gadgets. One night, my husband and I went out to dinner. We were a mile or so away from the house and I realized I left my phone at home. I immediately went into panic mode. I was ready to turn the car around and go back for my phone. What if we had a flat tire! What if we had an accident! What if we needed to call for help! What if one of our grown children who do not live with us called! What if! What if! What if! Never mind that these things almost never happen. It only takes once for you to realize the importance of your cell phone. Anyway, my husband calmed me down and reminded me that he had his phone with him. I did not rest easy until I called my daughter and told her that I left my phone at home, but she could reach us on her Dad's phone. Of course, no one called. But that darned cell phone was floating in the air over our lovely dinner all evening.
• India
16 Oct 06
i sure cant live without it.. i use it all the time.. even for ordering pizza!
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• United States
16 Oct 06
Thank you for your response. Ordering pizza seems necessary. It could even be elevated to emergency status at times.
• India
27 Nov 06
yes im a permanent prisoner to my cellphone........
• United States
30 Nov 06
Until a better form of communication comes along, what are you gonna do? I understand completely. :))
• India
17 Dec 06
well i was till a few days, now i wanna throw it away...
• United States
20 Dec 06
So what happened that made you unhappy with your cell phone? Was this the main connection between you and your gf?