why is life so .....
@ashwanipareek (197)
India
January 19, 2007 11:50am CST
as in our life we have to do anything.
ven a man is working for his family like off. or his buss.
he cant give proper time to his family n frnds .
ya dont they understand this that he is doing all this for them only .
coz he cares for them ..
to make a future of his children n his family .
but stil he has to face problems that he is not giving time to his family .
this is the prob. in my life
kindly plz tell me how to handle it
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@smartearnings (130)
• India
19 Jan 07
I am in opposite situation from you i am fed up of my husband sitting at home idle he doesn't cares for our future or our childrens i want him to go out earn money but he doesn't go only and we force him he just broods in silently.
@ashwanipareek (197)
• India
29 Jan 07
see thats wat i m taking if u work it is a pro n if u dont it is a prob
@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
19 Jan 07
All responsible men find themselves in this situation. We work hard, spend long hours at what we do so that our family can have a good life. And somehow we think this is all we truly need to do because surely they know it means we love them.
I learned the hard way that a family is far less impressed with a husband and father that provides a good life but is never thier. One of the most important things you can give your children while they are growing up is your time. Makes no difference how much of that there is just time when the only thing that counts for you is them.
Wives are the same way. Time spent with thme with little to no interuptions is valued very highly.
You can work hard all your life and make a very good living and have your children not know you. And that goes for your wife also. I am 65....lost my first wife of 37 years to a man thaqt would pay attention. And the only contact I have with my children now is if I initiate it.
You are still young. Don't let this happen to you.
