Help! What do I do?
By europebound
@europebound (102)
Canada
January 19, 2007 5:41pm CST
Here's the problem. I've been dating this girl for about one month, maybe a bit longer. It's not that serious on my end but our mutual friends tell me that she's crazy about me and that kind of freaks me out. We've been friends forever so I don't want to hurt her feelings by telling her that I'm not as into it as she is.
But there's more. I met her best friend and she's unbelievable. Unlike anyone I've ever met and now her and I talk all the time and joke about stuff happening between us but we both know that we're doing more than just joking. This girl is dating somebody too.
So what do I do? Should I break up with my girlfriend now, but then I can't get her best friend cause friends stick together right? AHHH Help!
1 response
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
19 Jan 07
you're in a very annoying situation. you have a girlfriend but you find her bestfriend attractive, too. however, her bestfriend is dating somebody else.
well, all i can say is, if you aren't happy anymore with your relationship with your girlfriend, don't force yourself into it. break it up. it's better to be honest to yourself than lie just because you don't want to hurt your girlfriend's feelings. it will hurt for sure. but atleast she'll know that you had been honest to her.
but i suggest that you don't date her bestfriend. remember that you'll be meeting other girls in your life, too. open your eyes and let hopes be opened. one day, you'll find someone who will really make you so happy.
