beauty is in the eye of the beholder?

@amaine (2027)
Philippines
January 19, 2007 6:42pm CST
do you agree with that line? , , beauty is in the eye of the beholder? , , i really got a little bit confused , , my mom and my boyfriend (at least) thinks i'm pretty , , my friends also do , , but how come i do not see myself as a pretty woman as they tend to describe? , , i hate to admit it, , but i see myself very ugly , , nothing much to say , , i really just can't get this thing out of my head , , you're open to express you thoughts and feelings and opinions too! üüü
3 responses
• United States
20 Jan 07
you think you are ugly, there fore that is what people see, an ugly person. Know that you are beautiful and people will see you as beautiful. See, beauty IS in the eye of the beholder. I experienced this first hand so know absolutely that my attitude regarding myself directs the people around me how to act.
@amaine (2027)
• Philippines
20 Jan 07
ok , , thanks for the advice , , :-)
@aryaman (245)
• India
20 Jan 07
I think its true that beauty lies in the eye of the beholder. I have been through the same experience. SOmetime i find a person very attractive but my friends doesnt. It maybe the reason that what factors they consider for judging beauty.
• United States
20 Jan 07
It is true. First, beauty is not necessarily physical. And second, nobody sees the same things as beautiful as others. Perhaps, you just lack self-confidence. Also, don't concentrate on physical beauty. You should focus on the beauty that you have within, because that is what means more in life. However, what I usually do, when I am feeling a little "yucky" is get a makeover (you can do that in the mall, I prefer the clinique counter, and you just have to buy a few of their stuff, I love their products, it is good for my skin), and then you get to feel gorgeous all day long. Then, a pedicure always makes me feel good, and if you don't want to order the whole thing, just get your toenails done for a few bucks....also, you can go get a massage, or a haircut, etc... Sometimes, I just like to do something fun, and exciting, like go someplace new, and get all dressed up, for something different, so that I feel better.