do you forget when you forgive???

its really possible to forget after you forgive....but on one condition...only if you really forgive that person...try it..you can also do

i wish i knew how to just forget when someone that i care about has hurt me. forgiving easy as long as they are truly sorry for whatever they did or said, but i have never been able to forget. i've been married for almost 5 years and i still think about things my husband said before we were married and it makes me sad. i don't say anything to him about it b/c it was such a long time ago and i know i need to get over it but it's hard. it does get easier with time though.

yes i do agree with you but te thing is that we should always leave it to others becouse when you think about it we think about the gains and losses and that makes it a business .so i think is that its better keep away from this kinda thinkin

Why forget if you already forgive him? You can also forget without forgiving. It depends on the person which the two will heal whats inside the heart of the person. You did not forgive the person totally if you want to forget him. It should be forgive and reconcile. In this way heartaches will be healed and everything will be back to normal. Both of you can move on with a lighter heart.

i forget when i forgive, but for me, things can never be as what they were before because i sense of trust is gone, and that for me is irreversible. It is hard to forget things, but I try to forget and not judge the person by the mistakes they have done with me. At the same instance, I also stay some distance with that person as a precaution so that I can simply forget it and don't have to deal with that person again.

Time can help you forget .. but dont force your self to do that if you really cant.. I always forgive.. but the memory is still there and i bet .. no one can remove it there.. just wait for the right time ...