Someone is stalking my girlfriend......

Not sure if this is the best advise but maybe meet her after work and make a scene in front of him by giving her flowers and kissing her. Then say to her loud enough for him to hear that you are taking her out for a nice dinner. Maybe if he sees her with you, he will think,oh well she is taken, I might as well give up. He shouldn't be doing what he is doing and hopefully he will get the message. Just be careful!

may be you cant try with the help of somebody else to find out what is name is? may be a coworker from your girlfriend? if he asks what he is doing here you maybe find an answer! or it is a mistake, or he is a real stalker, if hyou collect evidence, may be you can go to the police for advice how to handle this, this happends a lot and now it is only a week so maybe you can stop this!

Is there anyway your gf can ask a coworker to deal with that customer? Does she have a supervisor at her work? If she does, she should share her concern with the supervisor so they can coordinate the best way of dealing with this man for their company's sake. Does your gf have a cell phone with picture capabilities? Have her get a picture of him subtly as proof of who he is...just in case she may need to involve the police. Usually a company's manager is trained to deal with odd situations like this and might already have a plan at hand. I'd start there, if that doen't resolve anything...then contact the police for advice on how to deal with the situation.

Are you a strong guy? If so, instead of meeting her, watch her from a distance and see if the guy approaches her as she is leaving. If he does, rush over to them and give him "the squeeze". Have her carry a little recorder (hidden from sight) so she can record this guy talking to her. That way you'll have something to show the police that you're not imagining it all.

I know the police won't do anything until something more serious will happen. I suggest that your girl-friend will threat the guy and tell him that she will report this to the police if he won't stop stalking her. Don't use violence - it can take you to trouble. Use violence only for self defence if the stalker is attaking you.

if you're patient enough to find out who that guy is, wait at least 1 or 2 hours before the end of her office hours. if you know a thing about martial arts or self-defense, defend her from that guy, by approaching him and talk to him first. if you can intimidate the guy without hurting him, the better, but if the guy showed some kind of agressiveness to both of you, do what you've learned from being a martial arts practitioner. if you really want to know who the guy is, ask for police assistance or detective agency or security agency. i pray that God will guide you on whatever decision you will make and that nothing will happen to your girlfriend.

run don't walk to the phone and call the police. Tell your girl this guy could be totally dangerous. The police will do something especially if she calls from work and has the co-workers to back her up on this. This guy is probably dangerous don't wait until something bad happens, call the police now.

Yes, call the police, as I said before. She should call them as soon as she sees him and is getting ready to leave. She should tell them exactly what is going on and I'm sure they will, at least, talk to the guy. Or, they will get his name and a restraining order can be filed.

My answer will include a little of the two previous comments, as well as a third option. First, call the cops. Anything you have is what you can use. There are three things that can happen. First, they might have a case against him. Either through the evidence given, security footage, or past witnesses if he is a repeat offender. Two, the could decide that they have nothing, but the stalker sees her talking to the cops. He, although unlikely, might not notice that she is truly upset with his advances. Three, they can't do anything, but her employer finally takes it serious enough to take precautions. Second thing, meet her at work everyday. Make her comfortable, as well as, spend some time with her. If you don't think of it as an obligation, it can be quite a fun experience. The third thing I would recommend would be to have her take a self-defense class. It isn't perfect, but it will allow her to be more confidence and secure. Also, where I live, this will enable her to carry mace or pepper spray.

She needs to talk to the police. What he is doing is stalking and harrassment and it only gets worse.

Any witnesses to him trying to hold on to her? Physical contact can be considered assault. He could be charged with being a nuisance, invasion of privacy, or maybe something else, too. If he's making a habit of it, and other people can confirm it, you've got him. Never mind what his name is, use your witnesses, or perhaps see if there's any security footage of him. If the cops know there's a problem, and you complain, with witnesses to confirm it, they can decide how to deal with it. You can ask them, anyway. There's usually someone who's assigned to deal with women's issues like that.

I have a blue lightsaber, no a no cutting crystal, it has a anti matter battery inside. IT CAUSE NO BURNS. ONLY RECEIVE A BURN PAIN, no thats no burn, just a big big pain. But I say don't fight. I don't think that guy is coming after her, i believes its you, the guy could come after the girl. I would go Tommy Vercetti. IM psychomatic guy, and my buddy the lawyer, a Sonny Mafia Dumper maniac! We Own Vice City NOW!

Definitely want to make sure that there is a police record of any harrassment. Look into getting a retraining order. Also check out Revenge.com. You might get some good ideas there.

If I was you,I will spend more time with my girlfriend,and spend more energy to care about her.Maybe I have not date with her and care about her for a long time.

Im wiht you I think if the police won't do anything then I guess you got to take it into your own hands and give him a scare.

Tell your girlfriend to take extra care, I have a friend, she have been stalked too by a stranger, That stranger has been completely gone nuts and keeps on harrassing my friends office. Its just the same, the stranger(guy) keeps on waiting her out of the building almost everyday, my friend got scared but the same thing, she wants to report it to the police but what details can she give. Time past the stalker atlast stop stalking my scared friend. Lucky my friend is that time. For you as the boyfriend, You can approach the guy, just do a but of timing when is the stalker will pop out stalking your gf, Ask the guy what is he doing and what will he get of stalking you gf, put it in the nice way and talk in a low tone as possible. Or if ever you can't catch up with that stalker, it is also possible for you to report it to the police, let our gf describe how that stalker looks like, theyre goin to make a SKETCH of the face of the stalker depending on how your gf describe him.

Take some friend and talk with the guy who is staking your friend and tell him or give warning after doing this if he do not stop then go to police and give written complaint. And till the problem is not soloved be with your girl friend so that she will be safe and secure.

if you can call the police and ask them to come to her job and have her wait outside and then to get this guy. the best is to try and get some undercover cops to help you.

As she doesnt know his name, it is hard to report to the police. What I think she should do is to just make sure that she has coworkers with her whenever she leaves the offices and things like that. And try to just ignore him whenever he came to the office. Or you could come to her office earlier than usual, then maybe seeing you there, the guy would not dare to approach your girlfriend. But dont start violence, as it will get you into trouble.

Try reporting this to a police, I suppose there's an anti-stalking law in your location... Or better yet, wack this guy and teach him a lesson...