changed feelngs

India
January 20, 2007 1:11am CST
he sends u flowers wen u r angry wid him,he gives u gifts to please u ,impress u,he speaks of getting the stars down 4 u..he even goes to the extent dat he can die 4 u...but once u r married..the entire romance evaporates..u ppl fight most often..u blame each other...this is a common phenomenon..y does this happen..y does marriage change the feelings?or am i imagining it??
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@susanth4u (192)
• India
20 Jan 07
this depends on those people rey..........,whether they r in a right track....,bfore marriage no problem for them they thinks abt love not abt there life...,after maraige they thinks abt life not love......
@minerc (1373)
• United States
20 Jan 07
Its not suppose to change but sometimes it does, people forget how they are suppose to treat each other. The feeling don't always change, God gave a man instructions on how to be toward his wife, and he gave women instructions on how to be toward her husband. Colossians 3:18- "Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them." Ephesians 5:22-25 "Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. Husbands love your wives, just as Christ loved the church, and gave him self up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. After all, no one ever hated his own body, but he feeds and cares for it, just as Christ does the church, for we are members of his body. For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be unified to his wife, and the two will become one flesh. This is a profound mystery but I am talking about Christ and the church. However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself and the wife must respect her husband." Hope this helps, My Husband and I we have our arguements but we don't ever loose sight of how important we are to each other. Good Luck and God Bless