Do you hold grudges?
By muse02
@muse02 (213)
United States
January 20, 2007 2:07am CST
I personally try not to hold grudges. There is one instance that I can't seem to let go though. I got married to my wonderful husband December 23rd, 2005. My dad told me that I needed to make sure that it was what I wanted. I told him that it was and he said that he would not show up. I had to have my grandfather walk me down the isle. Isn't that sad?!? I have tried so hard to forget that he didn't even want to do that. Does anyone have a clue how to get over this?
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@lilttownmommie (1473)
• United States
20 Jan 07
have you tried talking to your dad about it? Or speaking with a counselor? Maybe if you talk to your dad about it and let him know how you feel the 2 of you can slowly work past this issue. I try not to hold grudges, I dont like how I feel when I am angry with someone, and I have foudn that the best way to work through something is 1. time and 2. discussing the matter with the person involved, and it will probably get worse before it gets better, but in the end it should work out. Good Luck I hope that you and your father can work on this issue.
@McWilliams04 (15)
• United States
9 Feb 07
You know I try not to hold grudges, but it's really hard for me not to. I just don't know why. I had a talk with dad about me and Bryan and he gave us his blessing. But it was only because we both had a talk with him about it, and I think that's the reason he wasn't okay about it with you two. He just wanted to sit down and talk about it with both of you. I think you made a good choice though. I love Donny with all my heart, and you guys have helped us a lot. I just want you to know that we appriciate it.
