do you believe your heart or mind?
@yvonitz_marian (117)
Philippines
January 20, 2007 6:50am CST
well, love could be so powerful. we even don't know how it started but the question guys is that why people need to be hurt though they deserve to be happy?do we really be like that or just simply its just on your own(depends upon you).. i myself had started to like guyz when i was just a little child but its just simply an admiration to someone, maybe because you like the way he or she is in you or maybe you like them coz they are physically looking good or pretty but in terms of falling in love, those reasons of yours to like are not the reason in falling. when we fall, a feeling is different!! you need to listen to your heart or its either your mind coz that two would tell you whatlove is..
i had a friend in here where i work as a scholar. she's very beautiful but she is a little bit chubby. when i first knew her, she is really great, nice to be with, to talk or even to enjoy but what's wrong about her is just how she falls in love with the guy he knew..here's her story..
she applied in our company where we recently work now when she had graduated. then, fortunately,she was accepted and was gotten to known by a certain guy. he is a good looking one, intelligent, handsome but a womanizer(not totally, just a little bit one.).she was really deeply falling in love with this guy though its getting hurt everydaday seeing him with other one..2 gfs- this guy have!!! is she using her mind or her foolish heart?? we already told him that loving him is wrong. he take our advise but it seems she couldnt resist. is it truly love? or just like?martyr!! you do we really need to use both our hearts and minds in choosing our perfect partner?me yes,it must for you really be happy if your heart and mind cooperates. but if not believe on what youre believin for but dont be a losser if you cant fight what your believen...HEART or MIND?its your choice..
2 responses
@here_for_you (325)
• Philippines
6 Feb 07
Your mind can give you a thorough understanding of things. Follow its exhortations and you'd be guided accordingly. I'm not saying that you must not follow your heart, but in some cases when the two are saying opposite things, it's best to follow your heart.
@here_for_you (325)
• Philippines
6 Feb 07
Erratum: In the last sentence of my response "it's best to follow your heart." It is really "best to follow your mind". I'm with the "mind" in the first place.
@vianney_girl16 (55)
• Philippines
5 Feb 07
Meh i would prefer both... and if ever i'm situated to choose only one I would choose maybe my mind... coz thinking is very important when you make a decision... just what had happened to your story if you will follow your and would only mean a loss of everything why suffer?... nowadays we need to be practical so that we can survive in this changing world...k?