is it only me, ? i have started feeling slightly uneasy answering

@ESKARENA1 (18261)
January 20, 2007 7:30am CST
IS IT ONLY ME, ? I HAVE STARTED FEELING SLIGHTLY UNEASY ANSWERING DISCUSSIONS STARTED BY PEOPLE WITH A HIGHER STAR RATING THAN MYSELF? Almost as though my knowledge isnt quite as valid
6 people like this
20 responses
@samsonskola (3357)
• United States
20 Jan 07
i don't think you should feel that way at all! as far as i'm concerned, i really don't put much stock in those stars...i honestly don't pay any attention, and i don't think anyone else should either...i think as long as the discussion is something that you're interested in, have your say!
3 people like this
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
20 Jan 07
thank you, as i said above its just a feeling ive had today, probably just me feeling insecure
2 people like this
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
20 Jan 07
eskarena, you don't have to be insecured. be happy instead! just enjoy discussing here. and pretend that stars don't really exist. then, you won't feel insecure anymore.
1 person likes this
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
20 Jan 07
hahaha yes of course you are right think im just having one of those days
2 people like this
@aidonia (4209)
• Greece
20 Jan 07
When the star rating begins at mylot i was with 5.Now i see it is 9.I'm happy for this but don't mean that i wiil have problem if go down again.So don't even think about this and keep going the good work.
3 people like this
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
20 Jan 07
congratulations to you, i on the other hand started as a 9 and dropped to a 8 not sure why but hey ho ill just carry on
2 people like this
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
20 Jan 07
i don't mind if others have a 10. for as long as i know that i also post quality discussions and responses, i won't feel bad about myself just getting a 9.i am happy about my performance here in mylot. and you should, too. don't worry about the stars, you'll get it higher in due time. and oh, just a reminder (hope you won't feel bad about this), don't type your discussions in all capital letters. it's against the rules of mylot.
3 people like this
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
20 Jan 07
Thank you, yes you are right sometimes i have typed in caps by mistake lol i often dont see it until its posted
2 people like this
@nuffsed (1271)
20 Jan 07
I hope it is you lol No ..You just give em what for!!! Remember the numbers system is the result of some mysterious algorythm that some mylot bod has decided suits them. It is of no real concern to us. Is it? Or am I the naieve one? When they give you stars and numbers, it affects how you act, they know that. I don't want to play.
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
20 Jan 07
thank you for that its probably just me having an insecure day lol we all have them now and again
2 people like this
@shywolf (4514)
• United States
20 Jan 07
Aw, please do not feel this way! ^_^ Star ratings aren't everything *laugh* Do you know, there are probably a lot of people around the site who would feel intimidated to one degree or another by the fact that you have over 4000 points by your name? That to me speaks even more highly of how valuable you are around the site, the fact that you have posted so much! I would not worry about posting anywhere that you wish! ^_^ And even if you only had one point to your name, there is no need to worry! You have just as valid of an opinion as anyone else does!! ^_^ ^_^
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
20 Jan 07
thank you so much for your support dont think i could intimidate anyone if i tried lol
@blueskies (1186)
• United States
20 Jan 07
Why would you feel that way? Just because someone has a higher rating doesn't mean that they are any more intelligent than you are. It simply means that others have given them positive ratings for their posts. If you participate in controversial posts, you may get some negative ratings that will lower your score. That's just the way it is. Maybe the people with higher ratings have never disagreed with anyone?
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
20 Jan 07
hahaha good point, i certainly disagree so maybe there is something in what you say, good luck keep posting
@kylesmiles (1910)
• United States
22 Jan 07
pillows - Need new pillows
It does seem like a contest to me. I think it could create a competition! :( My rating did go down from about a week ago, but that is because I haven't been as active in the last few weeks. But I am back on today and I hope to make some good money! :) I have too many things I want to buy! hehehe. :)
1 person likes this
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
22 Jan 07
there is a plus for you, keep on posting, i honestly hadnt realised that it could fall through in activity, hey you learn something every day
@budsr03 (2350)
• Canada
21 Jan 07
Your not alone! I don't question my intelligence, I have problems using the right words to get my point across. I am open minded and willing to learn from anyone at any age and level of intelligence. Take care Eskarena1.
1 person likes this
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
21 Jan 07
yes my friend we all should be open minded and i truely feel if i have a day without learning its a wasted day so thank you, and keep on posting
1 person likes this
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
21 Jan 07
No I don't there are a few of my Friends with 10 but it does not bother me I know what I am capable of and I will reply to Discussions with the best that I can give So don't feel that way keep going like you did before
1 person likes this
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
22 Jan 07
hahaha ty gabs, it really was a bad hair day lol im feeling much better today but i do wonder about the demotivating element of lowering star ratings
@minxy67 (2707)
22 Jan 07
Please ESKARENA do not take any notice of a star, I am still not sure how this star thing works, I would as always welcome any input that you put in my discussions, I value your point of view and I am sure that many other people do as well. To me you are a friend, regardless of what a silly star by your name says. :)
1 person likes this
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
22 Jan 07
thank you my friend. As far as i am aware it is to do with the number of plus ratings your responses receive. Mine fell over night a week ago and i couldnt understand why. It appears a person had gone to my discussions giving me minus ratings, this is what made me feel bad, not the stars as such but that someone should be so petty as to do such a thing blessed be friend, keep on posting
@nhtpscd (1416)
• Australia
21 Jan 07
No you shouldn't feel uneasy at all. It just means they have found more to respond to . Just keep posting and replying with quality and you will do just fine
1 person likes this
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
21 Jan 07
yes as i have said i was just having the equivalent of a bad hair day thank you for your words of suport but im fine now blessed be keep on posting
@Eskimo (2315)
21 Jan 07
You have a 9 rating, you can only go 1 higher, the ratings are nothing to do with the amount of knowledge you have or even your educational qualifications. You just have to p**s off one person who could go round all your discussions AND your responses and mark them all as '-' to lower your ratings. At the moment you have 4479 discussions or responses credited, to me that means you must know quite a lot about what you have put onto MyLot. Forget the ratings system anyway, it is just one way that Mylot is trying to weed out spammers & cheaters. I say someone complaining because he only had a 1 star rating, which looks as though it was because he upset several people. Ask yourself, do you look down on people who have lower ratings than you do? I seldom look at the ratings when I reply to anyone, and I certainly don't think a 10 gives makes them any better than me.
1 person likes this
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
21 Jan 07
yes of course you are right. As I said earlier I had a bad day yesterday, a bit of a crisis of confidence in many areas of my life. Today i feel much beter and no, i do not look down on anyone its just not in the way im made, but thank you for caring enough to answer this. Its much appreciated. As for me being a nine, lol i only just noticed i had it back its been at 8 for a week. Thank you again
1 person likes this
@Perry2007 (2229)
• Philippines
21 Jan 07
Do you mean that when other members respond to your discussions, but have lower rating than you have, you won't consider their responses valid? Expressions may be different and use of English sometimes might not be as good as others like you, with English as their native tough, But the ideas shared matters. Do we validate ideas, or opinion? There are some members here who does not visit or refer friends as often as others, so that affects the rating also. It does not really mean that when you have high rating that your ideas and opinion are better than those with lower star ratings. I would like to get the top rate though, so I strive to post good discussions and post. It also pays better. Relax, enjoy your ratings, They do fluctuate, you know.
1 person likes this
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
21 Jan 07
thank you, no of course i do not judge other peoples replied dependent on their star rating. Yesterday i think i had a crisis of confidence and started feeling that i dare not answer discussions full of answers from people who had a ten rating. It sounds silly today, but when i have days like that i feel bad and have some silly ideas. Anyway, today blessed be, normal service has been resumed, good luck and keep on posting
• India
20 Jan 07
no not really, i have a 6 on my star there are people with more. It always encourages me to improve..
2 people like this
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
20 Jan 07
thank you for that my friend, its not something i have considered before but today ive noticed some great discussions from people with 9 or 10 ratings and held back as thow my input isnt quite as valid, im beginning to wonder if the star rating is a good thing
2 people like this
@JoyfulOne (6232)
• United States
21 Jan 07
Don't worry about how many stars anyone else has, just keep posting and writing and adding your own quality remarks. I think you're doing great! Don't ever think that your knowledge isn't as valid, it takes everyone's own unique thoughts to make up a good community!
1 person likes this
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
21 Jan 07
yes, of course you are right just think i had the mental equivalent of a bad hair day yesterday, ty but normal service is resumed now
• India
20 Jan 07
hehehe.you are abosolutely wrong dear.star only indicates the average usage per day dear,not the quality of posts.so a person with no star can even aswer the most quality one.thanks
1 person likes this
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
20 Jan 07
well that helps a lot thanks, i dont feel like this most of the time, just having a bad hair day today
• United States
20 Jan 07
I call my knowledge "personal knowledge". Everybody has different "personal knowledge". That's why this discussion board is so good. It shares everyone's opinions. No one right answer. I'm trying to get my star! I'm curious as to my number, but I'm having so much fun, I don't really feel stressed over it.
1 person likes this
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
20 Jan 07
well you get a plus from me and no doubt you will be getting yours very soon good luck keep on posting
• India
20 Jan 07
oh! do not get frustrated my friend. its all about expressing yourself. rem i line :I AM THE BEST" nothing can stop any body.
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
20 Jan 07
good one , maybe if we all remeber that the world would be a beter place
• Philippines
21 Jan 07
i guess you must not feel that way. as i've said im only new here i still dont have that so called star rating but im fine. dont be intimated by these ratings or else the quality of your comments/response won't show the real you. just take it easy and of course have fun. take care!
1 person likes this
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
21 Jan 07
thank you for your words of support i have had so many positive comments that i realise it is my own insecurities, thanx again
@ram13288 (387)
• United States
20 Jan 07
hey i just joined and i dont even have a star yet and that just makes me want to post more so that i can get a star soon. so dont think that your knowledge isnt valid.
1 person likes this
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
20 Jan 07
great, keep on posting you will get one soon enough good luck to you keep on posting