IN LOVE, where should YOU follow, in your MIND or in your HEART??who's the best?

chrissymadam, all I can say is this: Love will always find its ways despite obstacles. I should say that in love, you must follow which you think gives you the best outcome. Your mind knows what's best for you. Your heart does not know what your mind is thinking but it does feel the emotions that the mind has ignored. Be rational and follow your mind coz sometimes the heart is selfish and unconcerned.

Always follow your heart, in heart lies the true happiness, so dont let your mind play tricks on you. If you want the one who makes you most happy, you go girl! You deserve the happiness so let the heart lead and you follow! *smiles*

Balance the two. You could make a list of reasons to the good, and a list of reasons to the bad side of any decision you need to make, and then balance them against one another, and work out which is the most ideal way to go. There is a saying... don't let your heart rule your head... but I think it could be just as disastrous the other way around. Therefore, you need to find a balance. I've probably confused you even more, lol, but I know what I mean! :-) I hope you find the response you're looking for. Good luck and Brightest Blessings.

well love is all about believing something which is above all the matrial things in the world and mind never understands things which arent practical .so in love for sake of love dont take your dicesions from mind

For me, the two needs to go with each other. An individual cannot live without any of them so we badly need the two of them...