Dad abhors favorite daughter due to debts and wrong decisions

Philippines
January 20, 2007 11:51am CST
What will you do if your Dad doesn't talk to you and doesn't want you to go to their house as long as your life is not yet fully stable ? He doesn't want to see you ? Is this a great offense ? Please help and give me suggestions.
2 responses
• Philippines
21 Jan 07
Keep on trying and time will heal all wounds. Just do your best to make up for the wrong decisions that you have made. God Bless.
• Malta
20 Jan 07
I dont think the Dad hates the daughter,it is the debts and what he sees as wrong decisions that he hates.It could be that he feels hurt especially if he believes that he has taught his daughter how to be wise with her life's choices. He may even wonder if he might have gone wrong somewhere in the upbringing. As a mother myself, I sometimes have these dilemas when my kids do something i think is wrong or make the wrong decision, i wonder if i have brought them up well enough and set a good enough example for them to follow. Lots of love and understanding is needed on both sides and human pride must be put aside in order for a first step of reconciliation to be made. The daughter could ask for advice from her dad on how to handle her debt problem. I cannot comment on the wrong decisions but do discuss and make up for life is just too short. Good luck
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