If your lover went to prison for five years would you wait?

@Kdking (171)
Jamaica
January 20, 2007 2:35pm CST
I know i wouldn't i only have one life to live and my lover would have to understand that i would need to get on with my life.
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@kevkentis (590)
• Jamaica
21 Jan 07
I wouldn't wait on anyone i dont have my life to waste i need to take advantage of every minute of it i wont stay around waiting for anyone.
@thekiwi (588)
• United States
20 Jan 07
That really is a hard question...I've been with my fiance' for four years going on five...and if he was locked up for five years, thats a waste on both our parts...plus we have a son together, so i guess i would...but it would be hard, i mean i love him and all, but if he had done something to put him away for five years...is that good for the children?
@baietzika (586)
• Romania
20 Jan 07
depends on what he did. if he raped a girl...no way. if heis inocent i might wait.
• United States
20 Jan 07
There would be circumstances around it sch as: 1-What did she go to prison for? 2-Was she with another guy when she commited the crime? 3-How the hell did she commit a crime? If she was/is faithful and true to mee then I would be the same to her. Sure I have urges but I know from personal experence that the body has a way to handle that situation on it's own!!
@kritipen (4082)
• United States
20 Jan 07
When i know about him prior to my marriage that he has a criminal bend of mind, then i would wait till he returns. If i do not know that he has a criminal bend of mind , but if he has that in fact, then i would not wait. If he dosent have a criminal bend of mind, but due to bad luck if he has to go to the prison then again i would wait for him.
@pillze (118)
• Romania
20 Jan 07
If i would really love him i probably would. This is a good way of finding out how strong your love for someone is. But of course that it depends on what he did, because if he would have raped or killed someone i would definetly break up with him. I could never love a man who did such horrible things. So it all depends on the circumstances!