A 2 years relationship but , after 5 years the first love reapears=confused
By floppo234
@floppo234 (80)
Romania
January 20, 2007 4:30pm CST
It's about my sister, like i said in another discussion, her boyfriend is the brother of my girlfriend, but that's not the subject that i want to discuss, the real subject is only her relationship.She needs an answer from you all.After 1 year in her relationship(2 years and a half), her boyfriend has changed, he is not the kind and understanding boy any more.After the 1-st year it folowed an year of suffering for my sister and trying to change him into the boy he was at first.She faile, and they broke up, decidind not to meet each oother for 5 weeks, to clear their feelings.Surprising, She met her first love , from 5 years ago, a boy who remained the same, aparently, and she is SO confused.What is the best solution in this matter?
1 person likes this
3 responses
@pratu0708 (126)
• India
22 Jan 07
Well this guy has proved to be a good for nothing and also he is giving a hard time to your sister. her first love who she knows for sometime is a better bet but i must say that she should be careful with him too. did they have a relationship before, if not, was he aware of her feelings before, because if this first relationship did not work out the first time there is really little chance it will work out again. In that case your sister should really just forget both of them, chill out, and try and find a better peron than both of them
1 person likes this
@floppo234 (80)
• Romania
22 Jan 07
Well she had a few relations after her first love and before the presenr one, her first love was when she was 13 years old, she wasn't mature enough, it was just a childish relationship, but he was the best boy in her life, he was perfect, that's what she says
@pratu0708 (126)
• India
22 Jan 07
In that case she can give this guy a chance but i still feel if this was in her 13s this guy too must have changed over the years, besides at 13 we are just too innocent and foggy to really decide what is good for us. i think here it is more of a crush she has for this guy than love. tell her to tread slowly here or this guy if he really has changed could use her insecurities and this "i really love him" stuff for his benefit
1 person likes this
@urzicutza (1971)
• Romania
27 Jan 07
well my opinion is that!firs love is firs love!and nothing more!you will never forget your first love that is for sure(i won`t)butt this doesen`t min that yshould go back !!!never because it will never be the same!once you brooked up!i think you sister should concentrate on her actual relations ship!and if she feals that that it will nevre be the same like it used to be!let it go!had up and asmile!because life is full of surprises!
you can replace anything!! BUT! THE QUESTION IS ...ARE YOU WILLING TO GIVE UP?OR ARE YOU SATISFIED WITH WHAT YOU HAVE?
LIFE IS TO SORT!
1 person likes this
@floppo234 (80)
• Romania
27 Jan 07
you are right my friend, but she is so confused, she is nervous she speaks even to me somethimes like everybody is her enemy.I hope all will be good, now she started a break of 5 weeks with her boyfriend, they don't want to see each other for clearing their minds and feelings.I hope in a happy ending of this.
1 person likes this
@KatieKwik (72)
• Australia
22 Jan 07
OK, the best solution is go to the first love.
Bear in mind that people do change. Even her first love, be prepared for the change too. Nothing in this world is eternal. People grow old and die one day. People do change.
1 person likes this
@floppo234 (80)
• Romania
22 Jan 07
ok, i agree with you, but i have a relationship with the sister of my sister's boyfriend wich started almost the same time with their's, 2 years and a half before now.And we are getting along like in the beginning and we love the same.
