i wanted to have a married life
By kindlady33
@kindlady33 (194)
Philippines
January 20, 2007 10:18pm CST
i wantyed to start a family of my own but it seems that my bf is not asking or even bringing the discussion about marriage? do you think he dont wants me to be his wife.we've been 2 years in our relationship
5 responses
@kindlady33 (194)
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
thank you for that comment....communication is the key.come to think of it maybe its not yet time maybe he's just waiting for the right time...but i will try to talk and bring this matter to him thanks anyways
@gigarange (1165)
• United States
22 Jan 07
I think your boyfriend is not yet ready to settle down. Just wait for him and do not worry too much, when he wants too he will ask. It would be better when he is ready to settle down that way he won't feel pressured.
@kindlady33 (194)
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
i think you're correct thnks any way for spending your time to give me some advice....i nid it this days
@antodoobie (89)
• India
21 Jan 07
may be he like to have pleasure with girl/love but not intrested in family life
@shivka (110)
• India
21 Jan 07
maybe you should bring up the topic of marriage indirectly and see what his views are..i mean you have been in a 2year relationship i bet you must have talked about marriage at some point of time or the other..so try and let him know what you think and what your wishes are maybe he will get the hint..!!
@kindlady33 (194)
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
ok.thanks a lot maybe your correct i should give him a hint thanks....
@angeliq (82)
• Romania
22 Jan 07
Well my dear one,
Altrough i don't know u , i may suppose frm ur name tht u r 33 y ould, and eaven if u r or arn't , doesn't matter, but! First of all, no matter what u may read here frm all the pousts u have to remember tht nobady knows u or ur boyfriend, so therefore , the finnal decision is up to u.
Now, why r u such in a hurry to get married ? Do u know how much effort takes to stay married once u get there? U will probably say " we r toghether frm 2 years, so i know him" but u r so wrong.U will find after a time once u will be married tht thinghs will never be the same, not 4 u and not 4 him.I woun't talk to u about small thinghs tht u will have to do 4 him every day ( but they r important 2 ..) , Just think tht marriage is like a toy 4 a kid.At first he wants it so bady but afer a while , forghets all abt it.So my pint is : in a marriage u must always bring in something new, so this way he wount't be bored.Manny thinghs tht u r used to do 4 urself will become less important.Mabey u will say tht i'm too negativist.But NO.This thinghs WILL hapen after u will get married. So, why r u hurring so much? U also must know tht every person has his destiny, so u can't "push " it yours.Just wait.Thinghs will happen when u asspect least. If he deserves u,and loves u so much, he'l realise tht this is what he has to do.But marriage ( at least 4 me ) must be once in a life-time.So please be pacient and leave him time to think abt this, cuz it's verry important.
Manny love and wisdom in ur life !
