Lets get together

United States
January 20, 2007 11:04pm CST
Have you ever had a friend who used to be such a big part of your life that you do not know what you would do if you had to go a day without at least speaking to them on the phone? And then one day life starts taking a turn and the closeness gets lost in the day to day struggles of life. How do you get the relationship back on track or is it impossible to ever have it back to the way it was?
2 responses
• United States
21 Jan 07
I went through this a few years ago. My best friend and i were inseperable(spell). We did everything together. Then I guess our lives started to take different paths. I started my family and she chose to make some bad decisions, and isnt even the same girl anymore. About a year later we called each other up and decided to get together and hang out for a few hours. Well, those hours were very uncomfortable for me and the girl that was my best friend no longer existed. I guess as the years go by some people just change. Since then, i've realized that you can't bring back the past so it is best to move on with your life and make the most of what is now.
• United States
21 Jan 07
Thank you for your response. That was really some insightful advice. I am sorry you lost touch with the person your friend once was it is hard. But it seems you have a good outlook on it. Best wishes.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
24 Apr 08
i think it happens to all of us more or less. we may think that it will not be psosible to live without this person, but all these things actually gets adjusted. if possible to again make contact i may. if not i will try tolive without that friend