Ques. for the guys-What if your patner gets raped--would you still stay w/ her?
@jenvalenzuela (267)
Philippines
January 21, 2007 12:07am CST
My friends and I were talking about this and I really can't find an answer. It surely would hurt isn't it... but hypothetically what do you think of doing if in such a situation?
10 responses
@jumpinjack00 (3054)
• United States
26 Jan 07
Damn right I'd still be with her! Anyone
who would leave their girlfriend because
of this is a loser!
A woman doesn't ask to be raped. It is
not her fault EVER. This is a crime that
starts long before the rape, within the
mind of a disturbed man.
Nothing has changed with a woman who has
been raped. She will need a lot of love
to see her through the hard times but
ultimately love will prevail and heal.
‹(°¿°)›
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@stiffened (193)
• Philippines
6 Feb 07
I think it really depends on how the other partner takes the situation. There are some people who are narrow-minded and won't accept his or her partner anymore, but i dont think that's fair for the other partner.
@moneyking (33)
• Malaysia
30 Jan 07
i choose to .. not only stay with her but helping her to get through the difficulties.
@lionhong83 (26)
• Malaysia
27 Jan 07
If a man leave his wife or girl friend just because they have been raped by someone else, then i can assume that the man wasn't that love his other half that much either. When this incident happen, perhaps the man can ask themselves, why did it happen? is it because the man never stay with their girl friend and protect their girl friend enough until there is chances for the morons out there to rape her. The victim is already suffering a nightmare and if their husband or boy friend still leave them at this time, how can they accept such a big hit?
@howard96h (11640)
• New York, New York
6 Feb 07
Yes you stay with her. There would be no reason to leave her.
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@ainakoboohay (357)
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
If I was the guy, I would still stay with her. Especially after that situation. That's really a nerve-wrecking experience for her. She would need all the help, comfort that she could get. Why would you leave her because of that incident? She didn't even know that it would happen to her. In short, It wasn't her fault.
@dhaliwalrosedeep (446)
• India
25 Jan 07
ya deafinatly ........why not ........i love her and ...i will stand with her ......
she needs my suport at that time .....and i will suport .her .....
abd this will the time when she needs me more
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