what do i do

Try to find out the facts clearly and if your doubts are right then I think it is futile to continue with the person as trust is the most valuable aspect of any relationship,once it is lost it is very difficult to get it back. So check your facts more closely.

Oh dude I have so been there.I had been told by friends that they'd seen my bf with someone else so I confronted him about it.He swore nothing was going on,he loved me and the girl he was seen with was actually with his friend.Since he didn't have a car and was often with the friend,I bought it.But you know even though he acted the same toward me, something was just a little bit off,I could feel it.So one night after he leaves me,I follow him.Instead of his friend taking him home he takes him to her house and drops him off.The next day when I see him I confront him again and this time he admits everything.I would suggest you do the same.Snoop,find out what's really going on.If she's innocent great,if not then you have to decide if you want to work it out.Either way I think it's better to know than wonder.

If you really want to continue your relationship I think that you should confront her with what you know and see what she has to say then. I mean, I can't see the point in going on if she cannot be honest with you, and you already know that she is not being honest. Maybe she has another reason for talking to this guy, or maybe she is just trying to work her feelings out, but it sounds to me like you need to have another talk with her and try to understand what her true feelings are.

First you need to find out for sure what she is doing. Whatever it takes, find out the truth first. And if she isn't cheating then you've avoided major problems. If she is cheating then you need to just let her go. If she cheats then she is not happy and it is obviously not meant to be. Handle it calmly as to avoid anything you'll regret. Move on and know there is someone perfect for everybody.

I would be straight up and honest with her to how it makes you feel inside. Are your friends lying to you or are they being completely honest with you? I wouldn't let her change the subject on me.