Extra marital affair
By tariqsurty
@tariqsurty (118)
India
October 6, 2006 12:15pm CST
Hi friends,
I would like to start up with this discussion. Here you have to say dat whether having an extra marital affair is good or bad.
Lets discuss your views with the community of MYLOT.
According to me,
It depends upon the relationship of the couple and the situation underwhich they are undergoing, it can be anything from unsatisfaction to disrespectfulness, any, any thing.
8 responses
@wasoncelost (74)
• United States
6 Oct 06
Why bother with marriage if you want to bed hop?? Never could understand that. You make a commitment, and if you have any morals or conscious, you remain loyal and faithful.
@prncesssly (1373)
• United States
6 Oct 06
Exactly! Why would you marry someone if you can't stay faithful to them? If someone in a marriage feels they need to stray away from their partner, they really should examine their relationship and make sure that everything is going well. If not, they need to see a shrink or something. At least end the marriage before moving on to someone new. Show some respect for your spouse... ya know?
@tariqsurty (118)
• India
6 Oct 06
to wasoncelost and prncesssly
well thanx for ur reply and was great to know dat such kind of people are there in this world who still respects marriage and spouse
@jaginfo2006 (1757)
• India
6 Oct 06
marriage is a bond of trust, respect, love , compasion..... having an affair only weakens it, it doesnt help it in any way. think of the children when a marriage breaks they have to lose either of them or in cases both the parent
@scooter1024 (1243)
• United States
19 Oct 06
I dont think under any circumstances is it acceptable to have an affair. If you want to be with someone else then end the marriage and do it. If your not happy either figure out why and try to fix it or get out and pursue what you think is going to make you happy.
@megean2k4 (401)
• United States
6 Oct 06
I think it is wrong on so many levels; emotionally, physically, mentally, morally, etc.
@tater03 (1765)
• United States
6 Oct 06
I don't agree with having an affair when you are married. I find this so disrespectful to the person you are married to and I love my husband to much to ever do this to him. If your unhappy and you have tried to work out whatever issues you may have in your marriage and you still want to have an affair, there is such a thing as leaving one relationship before starting another.
@tariqsurty (118)
• India
6 Oct 06
hi tater,
I entirely agree with ur view. Ya actually instead of starting up with an extra marital affair you should end the existing relationship if nothing works out rite.
@tariqsurty (118)
• India
19 Oct 06
hi arun,
there is no doubt about it,
but I just wanted to know the views.
anyways thanx for posting
@sassybritches72 (494)
• United States
6 Oct 06
unless both parties agree that an extra marital affair is not a problem, then I think it is a bad thing, if both people agree that extra marital affairs are ok and they dont have a problem with each other being with other people then its fine.
@tariqsurty (118)
• India
6 Oct 06
hi sassybritches72,
cool to know ur response and was a great idea put forwards by you. When both the parties are ready then there is no point in getting worried about it. rite.
@tariqsurty (118)
• India
6 Oct 06
HI arijitnit,
I exactly dint understood wat ur reply is!!!
Well anyways thanx for posting
