Should the father-to-be have a say?

well I think that they should have a talk about what activites that the pregnant wife or girlfriend is going to do whether the woman is pregnant or not and that way they it is a lot easier to understand each other more in regards to what they are doing, so it is a bit hard to respond directly to whether he should have a right or not in regards to the activities tht she does.

This is a hard one because I can see both sides of the story. I say the father-to-be should have some say since it is his baby too. It's his baby to and if the mom doesn't want the baby then the father should have a say as to whether or not he wants to keep the baby. On the other hand, the mother is the one who's going to be miserable for nine months and then go through the difficulty if labor. Her role in the process is much more so I can see how they favor the mother. Yet this child was created by both the mother and the father and they should each have a say into the decisions made about the unborn child.