is that a friend?

Romania
January 21, 2007 5:36am CST
supposing your best friend slept with your girl/boyfriend and told you it was the biggest mistake in his/her life and he/she still wants to be your best friend, would you forgive him and put in the past and stay best friends? what would you do?
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
21 Jan 07
i really had this hapen to me. and we stayed best friends I got rid of cheating husband for he kept doing it with any girl he could find even our baby sitter at one time
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
21 Jan 07
and the worst thing of this she was totally drunk so I beleived that it was his fault to push it on her
• India
21 Jan 07
ofcourse not i will kick him out of the relationship as he is a betrayer a back stabber
• Romania
21 Jan 07
In the first place a best friend shouldn't do that no matter what. Even if you girl/boyfriend is troung her/his self at him. He has to say NO. I think that you can't be best friend whit her/him because you can't trust her/him any more.
@albert2412 (1782)
• United States
21 Jan 07
I know that God wants us to forgive other people, but I think that forgiving both your best friend and your boyfriend would be hard to do. They both have betrayed your trust. I think that I would forgive both of them, but it would be a long time before I really trusted either one of them again.
@kathy77 (7486)
• Australia
21 Jan 07
yes, I would still stay friends with that person and as at least they told me the truth, about what had happened as if they were not my real friend even though they had slept with my boyfriend I would of at least learnt the truth and it does take two people to do this not just one.
@lastwish (779)
• India
21 Jan 07
I Dont think my friend could do that,if he did by mistake i would, if he pledge guilty and say me that i wont do that again it was my big mistake after all i would be knowing my friend
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
21 Jan 07
Yes I would but I would have to learn to trust my Friend all over again which would be hard but if they really regreted it and felt sincere about it yes I would It will be hard but it can work out
@ThulsZ (784)
• India
21 Jan 07
i will leave both the betrayers.especially i won't let this made by ma ex.best friend.
• Romania
21 Jan 07
i guess it is not the nicest way to prove your friendship to somebidy, but if ot happened than it happened. your honesty counts, even if it hurts...