When invited to dinner, what do you bring with you?
@ElusiveButterfly (45940)
United States
January 21, 2007 12:33pm CST
Whenever I am invited to for dinner with family or friends, I will offer to bring something. If they tell me not to bring anything, I usually offer to bring dessert, I insist upon it.
There have been times when we pick up a bouquet of flowers for the host, or a bottle of wine.
I always offer to help with the dishes.
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@globell45 (142)
• United States
25 Jan 07
I wish you were related to me. When I get stuck with dinners, I usually foot the bill for almost evrything. And if they bring something, I end up having to cook it any way. When I go somewhere for dinner, I always offer to cook one of the side dishes, since this is where the help is usually needed the most and I bring a dessert. I also help clear the table and offer to do the dishes. One year, we had Xmas some place else, we brought 1/2 the meal, becasue hubby is spoiled and has to have a meal fit for the kind. Him being the king. Turkey, ham, stuffing, potatoes, cranberry sauce, and a vegatable aren't enough for him, not enoughleft overs. So it is just easier for me to have it at our house. I do wish I could get every one to bring one cooked side dish though.
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@ElusiveButterfly (45940)
• United States
26 Jan 07
Assign each family a dish to bring. We do this when we have family get togethers and it works our quite well.
@brokentia (10389)
• United States
27 Jan 07
I offer to bring something also...not that I get invited to dinner anymore now that I have seven children. ha ha But when I did go over a person's house for dinner, I would still bring dessert also.
And funny...but I would insist on helping with the dishes.
But I haven't had to worry about that in a long time. ha ha ha ha
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@lisa101 (1362)
• United States
26 Jan 07
I usally do offer to bring someting to a dinner invitation. It seems that most of them i go to you are expected to bring something. However when i envite guests i do not expect anything and i tell them to just bring theirself and nothing else. I do offer to help with the dishes at an invitation dinner but never ask for help with mine at my dinners.
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@sunrisekn (1466)
• United States
23 Jan 07
I do the same thing. I'm all for sweets. I offer to bring something if they say no, then I bring flowers or if I have enough time I bake brownies for them. I tell them they can't have them until after I leave. They are appreciated. At first I thought they would get offened, but they call a couple days later and thank me for the brownies.
@anne_143god (5387)
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
It is just a polite action if you also bring something for the host. I think it is just showing a good values and respect to the host. I think it is just normal for those who are being invited most the people I know usually do the same.
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@cjsmom (1423)
• United States
23 Jan 07
Our friends are moving to Maryland shortly and we will miss them terribly. We'd go over a few times a month for dinner and ask what to bring. Were told 'just ourselves' most the time. Dave and Mark would cook. Kathy and I would talk and CJ would watch his favorite movies or programs.
Dave would love it because I would always jump in and start cleaning up after him as he went along. He'd say, 'get that woman another drink'...lol
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@umapratyusha (20)
• India
22 Jan 07
when ever i am invited for dinner i will bring something. i will definitely give them fruits or sweets.
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
22 Jan 07
What can be better than beautiful bouquet of flowers.....if they are roses then even more worthy.If you are invited by a lady host, then you can always go for some Jewellery gift, of-course she is going to love it. If there are lot of children around then idea of dessert seems to be wonderful. You can also take a nice movie dvd or some games with you to relax after dinner.
Well, idea of helping with dishes is really great....wish all could think the same way.
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@rubypatson (1840)
• India
22 Jan 07
I usually carry some good chocolates, or cakes or just fruits
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@jenvalenzuela (267)
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
I usually bring something for dessert such as pastries and sweets. =)
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@abhiquest (579)
• India
22 Jan 07
We in India, usually prefer to go down for dinner at a friend's place with sweets. If there are children in the house some chocolates would also do. If its a special occasion then we need a gift fitting the occasion and our hosts. I also prefer taking something home made if the host is quite close to us. Some nice piece of Crystalware also gets a top priority in my list of probable gifts.
@survey_antony (219)
• India
22 Jan 07
i just bring love, relationship, expectation and the main thing that is hunger
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