Letting go of someone whom you know is not right for you.

I let go of my last partner because he was constantly taking from me, my money, my energy, anything and everything whilst saying that he loved me, etc. I was with him for two years and lived with him for one year and it was during the time of sharing a house with him, I saw him for what he really was, he wouldn't do any of the housework, kept borrowing from me and not paying me back, etc. It actually made me quite ill. It got to the point where I had had enough and I called it a day on the relationship and moved back in with my parents and a few weeks later it struck me how little he'd actually thought of me to act the way he did and I had been an easy target for providing him with a home, food, etc and I realised that it was one side of him I had fallen in love with and not the entire person.

oh man ur so rite it is not so ezi to let go any one u love and any one can not see thr loved one with some one else speiclay if he/she is married....it hurts and hurts bad...not ezi 2 let go but one should,i know if ur like truly in love with that person regardless if the person is good or bad...that means u realy r in love with that person but dont u think even if u know he/she is married n has a family y should one be selfish? love is not selfish...love is sacrificing feelings for the happiness of the lover..beter leave the lover alone with his/her family and move on....God might give u a beter person then him/her who can and wil value ur love in other words ull be rewarded!

Just realizing that you are no good together and making a point of moving on with your life. In my case each person I have had a relationship is still in some way a part of me. I remember them and appreciate the time we had together however it was time to move on and they became my past. New horizons is an exciting thing and keeping your thought pointed forward goes a long way to improving your life.

hey i wont be so stupid because ive been experienced and i was very stupid with two of the stupids that is my great ex-friends in my life!!!! now they are with me still,i know they need me but both of them have betrayed me!!!! i loved them and trusted them a lot and they paid and reciprocated their love by hurting me!!!! they want me now but i just smile whenever i see them thats all no more love exists between us!!! i will never go behind them and will allow them in my life!!! if my partner does the same!!! the same will be happening to him,im sure!!!

it is hard to let go when you give all right? but you already know she is not worth for you why hold on? Let go and move on that's it

A person has to be realistic and understand that a relationship does not only involve love.

That is why LOVE is told to be BLIND Mr./Miss A loves first and then thinks about the background of the loved.Later if a realisation comes out that the loved one is not the right person to have been loved.But the factor of Love is so rigid that it will not give out it's qualities and doesn't allow the lover to come out of the unknown fence of the loved. Join this site to earn dollars : www.agloco.com/r/BBBK7692 Join once and Free ; refer your friends and Keep quiet. The site will work for you and give dollars.

I think you should let go of a person if you feel that you really dont love him or her and you think that he/she is only taking an advantage of your good will.

There are times when you simply have to think with your mind over your heart, as much as it hurts or seems impossible. You have to tell yourself that this relationship is not good for you and that YOU deserve better. I know it can be tough, believe me I know. I was in love with a man that treated me like a queen, was so beautiful in so many ways and shared my very soul. I had to let go because I knew that the age difference was going to be just too hard. Sure, we were great now but he deserved to have the right to have kids and enjoy those aspects of life. If he were to marry me I didn't want more kids (I have 3 teens now, done with the baby years), not to mention we would certainly reach a point where I was simply "too old" versus him. As much as I knew we currently loved each other, and had loved each other for 3 years, I knew I had to let go. Still hurts today but I have moved on as much as I can and allowed myself to understand that sometimes you need to use your mind over your heart. Good luck.

Letting go is painful, heartbreaking.. most of the time, consumes your whole self.. Its okay to give yourself time to mourn. But then, for a certain period only. After the strom, get back in your feet. Start living again and looking for all possibilities and chances. Let go means taking 1 step forward in the ladder of maturity. Just like the song goes -- letting go, is just another way to say I always love you so.. SO, set her / him free. Let fate do its course.

this thing is really hard...but trust me...its only after u let it go...n then u will realise tht it was the best thing u did in life. there is nothing gained by being in love with someone who is not worth it. who doesnt care.

well, i am also in the same situation as you.. im inlove with someone who is inlove with someone who is also inlove with someone... get it?? actually, i just wish that some magic would just make him fall for me so that it will be me and him,, the end!!! but then, he is so hopeful to win the girl's love just like how hopeful i am to win his... though he tried to forget the girl, the way i tried to forget him, it just didnt work out... so here we are, complicating our lovelife.... i guess thats how it really goes in love,,, anyway, love is not that fair...

you can only ignore the situation for a while, then it will only be harder for you to let go. Be brave!

If you love someone truely even if consist 100 of faults still u will love that person as love is blind

It hard to let go of someone you love but you have to let go because you have been hurt of what he did.I would still love him but not much when we were that close.

When it comes to LOVE, its really complicated.To let go of someone is the hardest thing to do, but if it rally doesnt work out then stopt the craziness and move on.There is nothing to do but MOVE ON.

hi there.... when i had my first boyfriend, i didnt know that he got a girl friend already and soon after he got her pregnant. It was so hard to let him go but that's just the right thing to do.. it was hard of course, there were sleepless nights, crying almost everyday... He told me that he loves me and if he could have just met me a little bit earlier. he's gonna marry me right away.... but maybe that's the way it is, some things are not meant to be.

Its true that people say 'Love is Blind'. When you are in love with someone you do not see whether what they are doing is right or wrong. And when they leave us it is still difficult - difficult to believe that theya re no longer in our life. It hurts a lot but i guess time is the no. 1 healer. You should not force yourself to let go - time will do that for you.

its really hard.. but i managed to let go by stopping my communication to that someone who i know is not right for me.. i deleted his name in my phone directory so i wouldnt be able able to text or call him ever again.. i try to shift my attention to other things like work, hobbies, new guys.. hehe

attachment it is.. letting go of someone is detaching yourself from that one you love.. you detach from the bond that you've had.. you try to let the memories and the feeling go but never forgetting.. its hard to detach, especially to the one that shares your dream.. your future and your plan.. but think about the bright side of teh story crate a better dream and think of more things to do..