Is She Cheating?

Yes I am one of those guys. I was married to my first wife for 37 years. However I learned many years after the fact that she had seven affairs during the early years. It liked to kill me. I had no idea. I did know she was not happy...but there were thing I would have liked better too but never considered trying to find it elsewhere....and I trusted her. After a number of sessions with a conceler, I worked through it, and becaues it had been many years before we went on. Well about 5 years ago she did it again. Found him on the Internet. When I found that out I left and we divorced. I am married again....yes some of us are real fools...and she lives alone. Mr. wonderful turned out to be far worse than me. It is easier for woman to cheat and get away with it I think because men are not on the lookout nearly like women are. Or so it seems to me.

For several decades more men admitted to cheating than did women. I dont think this is because more men cheated, just that they were more honest about it.You see it takes one man and one woman to cheat, therefore the numbers baring some aberation should be even! What I think people are seeing is that more women are being honest about their affairs. What I also see as scary is that many males did not realize these women were cheating. Are men that blind or are women just more willing than men to cover for their philandering friends?

that is why more and more couples are thinking about open marriage and swinging/swapping.because here evryone is honest and enjoy whole thing together and cheating factor automatically eliminated

Men due to egoistic supriority complex tend to admit their infidilty much easier, which unforutnetly tend to be labeled as Honesty. But women are smarter than men in this area, they are very comfertable in hidding their true feelings and they will be the last person to acknowledge their infidilty even to themselves even in dreams. What now is happening is that now women are more comfertable with the idea of infidilty and very much open to admit it. But still its hard to catch a women infidility through her emotions or feelings were as men is easy to get caught with his pants down.

NO i have not this experience.do u have this because i think many wives do so behinds thier husbands.and how do u know that wives do i.but sorry to say that u only said that not proven that,just said that manu wives do so that they made affairs with other persons.as u say that it is true did ur any friend do so.that she made affair with anyoher after her mariage if yes then what u done with that,did u talked to his huusband that hs wife is doing so,or u tried to understnad ur friend not to do so .

I figure anybody who really wants to know, does. It's not like people are very good at hiding these things. If a guy doesn't know, it's because he is turning a blind eye.

I'm not married but which signs are you talking about? I want to know them lol we never know if it knocks on our door! :P

I would never cheat on my husband. I know that many people do cheat on their spouses, and I do not think that it is right for either to cheat. it is not right for a man or for a women to cheat on their partner. it is wrong. if you are not happy you shouldn't cheat, spare them the humility and embarassement and hurt, and just leave.

This is pretty alarming. I think we guys should know our girls first before marrying one. It is so sad indeed that some live in a marriage full of lies. I just can't think how they could live with it. One time I saw a TV show which featured infidel wives. One case their was a family of five children I think. The kids were diagnosed of a certain disease where doctors argued that only a father could hand down to his children. When they tested the father, he came out clean. That is when the mother confessed that his husband is not the father of all her children. That she is having an affair with another man. It was really so sad. I pity the husband to having raised those kids which were not his in the first place. T'was so mean of this woman.

Not really as i am not the jelous type and i usually dont care what my love one could be doing and i wouldnt ask questions.

Sometime it really happens but all of them doesnt do that and due these ladies acts we cant suspect all of the wives because if we do so it means we are betraying our relationship. Isnt that so? Trust is the most important thing in relationship and if your wife breaks it up then leave her because she doesnt deserve you.

Can't really answer this, as I am one of the women. Yes, they are/would be surprised, as they believe that the cheating is a man's thing. And you are 100% correct, they do not get, or perhaps want to get the signs I guess they should read more magazines, or posts, or something. Anyway, in my life-a blessing.

I personally don't agree with cheating. I'll leave first and I expect the same consideration from the other person. I just don't tolerate cowardice, disloyalty, or dishonesty and that's really all cheating is about.

No. Im not a cheater, but it does get lonesome in my marriage sometimes because my husband doesn't really understand or listen to me, but no one does actually so it isn't his fault.

I think men cheat more than women, but both ways i dont understand how its possible to lead a double life, its sad really to be found in such a situation, after knowing that one of them is cheating, then the other one must just leave the person, not worth living with such a person

na she is lovable, cn't cheat

From what I read, a lot of this cheating occurs in the work place. The woman may have a friendship with a individual, and it leads to more things.

The thing is for a normal relationship, cheating will become obvious after several occassions of occurence. If the marriage is normal. I mean, the communication is there between spouses, sensitivity to each other's needs, the support for each other's endeavors and so on and so forth. But normally cheating is a result of lack of those things that I mentioned earlier. Therefore, if a spouse (husband or wife) doesn't detect cheating at an early stage it's because he/she doesn't care about him/her anymore. Hence, lack of interests about the whereabouts of the cheating partner, maybe he/she is cheating too.

I've never been married, but I have had a girlfriend that cheated on me numerous times. And trust me, it wasn't from any lack of attention. I used to cook for her, spend time with here, we had a very healthy intimate life(by healthy I mean at least once a day). Regardless of that, she still decided to cheat on me. In the end I found out that it averaged out to one other guy per month for the year we were together. Were there signs? I think so, but I like to have proof. What I learned was that when your gut is telling you it's happening, then it probably is. We are raised, in this country, to believe that the men are the cheats and liars and poor role models. The reality is, that women can be just as bad if not worse. As a society, we've been beating men up for years and it needs to stop. This article would be indicative of it not just being men.

men and women both cheat.the spouse has to look for signs of infedility before its too late.the increase may be bcoz men are not caring enough