How tolerant are you?
By Evacuee
@Evacuee (1147)
January 21, 2007 5:52pm CST
Are you a tolerant person?
What makes you get uptight?
I cannot stand bad service myself. Queuing in shops when there are not enough staff to manage the tills is when I lose my tolerance.
People who go through a store door and leave it to close just as I'm entering and people who let you open the door and rush past without a thank you.
I shout after them asking why I never got a tip but I do not do it so much if my wife is with me. She gets embarrassed.
How about you?
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@cloudwatcher (6861)
• Australia
25 Jan 07
I think the older I get, the more tolerant I get.
I don't mind standing in line, even if I don't think there are enough check-outs operating. I have stopped expecting people to hold a door open, so it doesn't bother me.
There are things, though, that I won't tolerate.
I can't stand bad language, and this is becoming worse and worse, by more and more people; men, women (I won't say ladies) and children. When people are swearing and using foul language in a public place, I will sweetly ask them to desist in the presence of a lady. In a supermarket, I have often told men that they should complain to the management if there is so much blood around. If the language is really foul I haven't yet told them to get out into the gutter where they belong, but one day I might.
There is one thing that annoys me more than foul language and that is any abuse of children. I am completely intolerant of this. We hear so much mental abuse as mothers struggle to control their children. One of these days I'll probably land myself myself in trouble, but I cannot do otherwise than approach the mother. At first, it is usually an offer to help or a gentle reproach, but I leave them in no doubt of the harm they are doing their children.
I think I am a tolerant person, but when it comes to swearing and any form of child abuse, I have almost zero.
Another good discussion. Thanks
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@cloudwatcher (6861)
• Australia
25 Jan 07
Politicians are a different breed.
May I ask why you chose Evacuee as your myLot name?
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@Evacuee (1147)
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25 Jan 07
Hi.
I am quite a tolerant person too and I don't really shout after someone who just walks through the door, as I said earlier, and does not give a thank you as they pass but I sure feel like it sometimes. But I must add I do not like bad service.
As for swearing, profound swearing, at anyone I can honestly say I've never done that in my life. I can argue, as my wife can verify but I can also apologise too, mostly just to keep the peace.
What the heck we're all on this planet to get on with one another, that excuses the politicians of course!
@Evacuee (1147)
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25 Jan 07
Of course you may.
As I said in a previous posting. I was a Evacuee back in 1939 and another reason is that when we moved up here to the countryside from London the locals referred to us as the Evacuees for a time and still do with affection, I hope.
So it seemed an obvious choice.
@rosie_123 (6113)
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25 Jan 07
I like to think I am tolerant - yes! Of course everyone has bad days when they feel tired or stressed and get a little more impatient than they should do - but on the whole I try to see life from others' point of view as well as my own. About the only thing I am truly intolerant of is others' intolerance and bigotry if that makes sense!
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@Lola2006 (86)
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21 Jan 07
Yes, queing when there's not enough check out operators annoys me too, but what really gets to me is when you're in a supermarket, in a hurry and there's two cashiers, that seem to believe their job is to talk to each other, and hold up everyone waiting to pay!
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@XxAngelxX (2830)
• Canada
21 Jan 07
I tend to be a very tolerant person I think. When faced with such a situation as you mentioned above, I always think perhaps that person has had a really bad day and just try and forget about it. Sometimes it does upset me, but I would never say anything to the person. I'm like your wife, lol, I'd get embarrassed too.
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@CookieWookie (136)
• United States
25 Apr 07
I am pretty tolerant to most thing but if my Internet service starts running slow and it is their fault it really steams me! And I hate rude people at the store that push their way in front of you like they are the only one's that matter on this earth! And I think the worst thing Ever Ever is someone popping and snapping their gum in my ear!! *grrrr*
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@marciascott (25529)
• United States
22 Jan 07
How tolerant am I ? enought to not pay you any attention, do not respond to any of my discussions. you are a A$$ hol!!!!