What will you do if your husband is cheating on you?

Philippines
January 21, 2007 9:48pm CST
How do you handle it if your husband is cheating on you? What would you do if he keeps on denying it? Although you have not really seen it but a lot of your friends have seen it already. Worst thing is, he just wasting your hard earn money for his women! Is it worth staying with him just because you are married to him?
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@XxAngelxX (2830)
• Canada
22 Jan 07
I have just this year gone through that exact thing. I didn't stay with him just because I was married or because we have children together either. We did the counselling thing and that didn't work, so I asked him to leave. Really we are better off as just friends if he felt the need to cheat on me and deny it. I am much happier now, and I think he is too.
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
my thought too. I want to separate from him while i still have a little respect left for him. Maybe we can still be friends when we separate.
@xXmeganxX (4420)
24 Jan 07
hi, great discussion. well firstly when i first met my boyfriend and still a few months after being with him, my friends had always told me that he was cheating on me, so i asked my boyfriend and he told me he hadn't. so i just holded on for a bit longer because i actually wanted to catch him out myself to believe it, i checked his phone for unusual numbers and texts and so on, a few months later my friends actually addmitted to me that they was fooling me around to see my outcome of it, and to see if i would leave him, and they was joking with me after all, so i then lost friendship with them and i don't believe a word anyone would tell me now, if they said he was cheating, i would want to find out for myself or see it to believe it! :)
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
i believe in woman instinct. if i feel like my husband is cheating me. i'll let him choose. if he choose the other.. i'll move on by myself.. i'll see to it that my partner will regret for the rest of his life..
@slavena (87)
• Canada
24 Jan 07
No it is not worth staying with a man if he's cheating on you just because you're married. You need to be careful though because if your friends say they have seen it, and you've never seen it yourself.. your friends may be lying to you. Sometimes you just can't trust your friends no mattter how good of a friend you think they are. I've had this happen to me, one of my good friends was lying to me just because she was jealous of our realationship. I don't trust friends anymore, only some.