how can i control jealousy???please help!

Jealousy is a product or an outcome of insecurity, lack of self-esteem, doubt and selfishness. Why do I said that? Insecure.. Because if your not confident with yourself why bother losing your boyfriend, if you can replace him like as he might replaces you.. there are TONS of boys out there better than he is why keep them at the bay?. Lack of self-esteem.. you are afraid that other girls are better than you. Doubt.. Hmmmm.. this is the most obvious part you actually really don't trust him. If he really loves you, he will be honest and loyal to you (not all cases are like this) why be afraid to let him be with his girls friends? Like they said TRUST is the hardest part in a relationship. Last Selfishness.. Hey lets admit if your getting possessive as if you want to keep your boyfriend for yourself. But the key to this problem is COMMUNICATION, talk to each other and spend your quality time together so that you can build trust and confidence in your relationship. But remind you, don't interrogate him as if your a CIA agent or you act like his mom (the nagging thing), just be your neutral self and don't jump conclusion base from what you see and hear from other people, just don't assume it will only frustrate you. Be confident like "so what? there are other guys better tham him *grin*".. hey i give you some tips most men admire strong personallity *wink*. I hope i make a help out of there.

i am in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. and we're in this relationship for 9 months already. we spent two good weeks together last year and then, he's back to sweden again (i am from the philippines). he has one girl bestfriend. at first, i always get jealous since they can be together and i can't. but after someone, i learned to trust my boyfriend. it's really difficult at first. but since i love my boyfriend so much, i trust him. plus he assures me all the time that it's just me he loves. i think you should try to talk to your boyfriend about how you really feel. it will make you feel a lot better if you open up issues with him.

Just have trust. Because it is the only feeling that will take away the jealousy out of your mind and heart.

I can control by doing mercyness on them. I don't have to love or hate them. You put yourself's mind in the middle. I should make pity on them that one day he/she will die as well. We all have to die soon or later.

In the mornings, look at the mirror and reassure yourself "I am beautiful. My boyfriend loves me. I'm his girl" Do this repetitively until it gets into your system. And look at i this way, if you're beautiful, and your boy cheats on you, shame on him! Its his loss not yours!