Is it ok with you to marry someone who has kids?
By jobbyhill07
@jobbyhill07 (92)
Philippines
January 21, 2007 11:17pm CST
I opened this topic since there were a few females in mylot that are in this situation and I know that there are a lot of them in here. Even some of the men out there might be experiencing this one. So what's your opinion on this?
3 responses
@lilbitgreen (167)
• United States
22 Jan 07
My opinion as a single mother is that it is an individual choice. Some people don't mind the "instant family." If it isn't for you don't get involved with someone who already has a family. What makes me any worse for wife material just because I already have a family. Face the facts single parenting is a way of the world these days.
@jobbyhill07 (92)
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
Well said lilbitgreen! I hope you'll find the man who will truly love you and who's understanding enough and open-minded to accept you and your kids.
@mashimaro (1094)
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
It depends to the situations he has..if he is married and his wife is gone, and no communications at all, it's ok for me..but it happens that in between in our relationship naahh, it is a another story.
@mashimaro (1094)
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
It depends to the situations hehas..if he is married and his wife is gone, and no communications at all, it's ok for me..but it happens that in between in our relationship naahh, it is a another story.