is it ok for a guy to compare (negatively) his girlfriends breasts to others
By Antianara
@Antianara (608)
Australia
October 6, 2006 7:51pm CST
my boyfriend and I were watching a movie and their was a nude scene, he points to the female and comments that "she was almost flat chested but she had bigger breasts than me" now, apart from the unfairness of comparing a tall larger person to a short skinny one. it just wasn't a nice thing to do, I didn't compare his tubby frame to johnny depp when we watched pirates of the carribean.
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@sillygirlsd (959)
• United States
7 Oct 06
You used the word 'Negatively' so you know it was wrong for him to have said that! It all depends how you took it thought! It would of pissed me off if my bf would of told me that but then again my boobs aren't that small! You should tell him something mean and see how it makes him feel! well i know 2 wrongs don't make a right but that's what I would do......
@sillygirlsd (959)
• United States
7 Oct 06
lol....you shouldn't be sensitive about your looks....I mean yeah it was messed up that he said that...but then again he's not with you because of your looks!
@sillygirlsd (959)
• United States
7 Oct 06
lol....you shouldn't be sensitive about your looks....I mean yeah it was messed up that he said that...but then again he's not with you because of your looks!
@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
7 Oct 06
I know how you feel but with me it's how skinny they are and how tubby I am. Yeah, it hurts and sometimes I do comment back and it does shut them up for awhile but you know men always using their mouths for other things than we want them to lol but you need to let him know that it hurt your feelings sometimes men don't think before they comment and always putting their foot in their mouths. So either tell him to put a sock in it or next time he wants to get hot and heavy you wwon't be their for it.You'll be out looking for someone who likes everything about you.
@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
8 Oct 06
LOL Well i wish you the best of luck in either training the one you have or looking for another one. Mine? I've had him 15 years and as the saying goes you can't teach a old dog new tricks. Well you can but they always forget.
@Antianara (608)
• Australia
7 Oct 06
yeah, it sounds like we should both be looking for guys that like us for who we are.
@MINDY0882 (2302)
• United States
7 Oct 06
no that is uncalled for he should keep his opions to his self and consider how it would hurt or did hurt you to say that, some men lol.. It was no right
@Antianara (608)
• Australia
7 Oct 06
any guy that would try to flirt with a girl like that has a whole load of problems. I don't think he was trying to flirt.
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
7 Oct 06
Why do not ignore his comments and utterances which does not really deserve any sory of replies.
@Antianara (608)
• Australia
7 Oct 06
at the time I just gave him a shocked look but it would be impossible for anyone to get a comment like that from their boyfriend/girlfriend and totally ignore it, not have it bother them at all.
@Antianara (608)
• Australia
7 Oct 06
next I should compare him to a hot guy on tv and see how he likes it *sighs* but then I would be being nasty too.
@baileysgurl2005 (144)
• United States
7 Oct 06
That is not fair to you at all and if it were me I would have told him if he does not like the way I look to go find someone else! When you love someone you do not compaire them to others, especially an actress! Heck when my feonce and I watch t.v. he always points out how much prettier I am to the actress, LOL I know a lot of times (in my opionion anyhoo) it is not true, but it makes ya feel loved and appreciated to hear it. If he loves you then you should be his actress, not the girl who gets to feel like crap!
@Antianara (608)
• Australia
7 Oct 06
that's what I thought although at the time I was a little too shocked to say anything.
