japan, very big in business, but very small in family values. agree or disagree?

@mikhail7 (176)
Philippines
January 22, 2007 12:37am CST
Been there. Worked there. Heard and seen a lot of testimonials and confessions from its people. They are really serious about their jobs. Even their own children can't take a break without their consent. Can you imagine my boss'es son who just got an appendectomy in 3 days, was forced by his father to get back to work? Most of the men there aren't that romantic to their wives. They don't even share the same room. what is that?
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@blindedfox (3315)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
Japanese people tend to be more concerned of their jobs more than anything else. They think that they are doing that for their own family's sake. =) Unfortunately, some do it way over board, even forgeting personal hygiene (some Japanese 'forget' to take a bath.)
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@mikhail7 (176)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
I guessed you've been there too. They not just forget to take bath, they also don't brush their teeth. Have you seen their teeth? It's like they just eaten marshmallows and got stuck between the gumlines.
@JB1979 (80)
• United States
23 Feb 07
I spent two years there. However I think I was in a differnet location becuase I personally had several friends that were japanese and I went to their homes for dinner, hung out with them, Had them over to my house and things like that. I got the impression that they are very family centered. The family I went to dinner with a couple time a week were always very loving and open towrad each other and me. They did have like 20 people from 4 generations living in a tiny little house but they were always very nice to me. I will say that as for the hygiene thing I never knew them to smell bad but the dental programs they have in Japan could really use an update.
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@mikhail7 (176)
• Philippines
25 Feb 07
Well that's good to know, but I have encountered a lot of broken women and heard their stories about their husband's behavior and treatment. But still it doesn't mean that they are all bad, right?