I need some advice on a situation..
By exponents
@exponents (65)
United States
January 22, 2007 1:04am CST
So I've been in a relationship for a little over 14 months. I'm not happy anymore. I'm happy hanging out and being friends with the girl I'm currently dating, but I'm no longer attracted her as I was before. I love her a great deal, I'm just not "in love" with her. One of the problems lies in the fact that we live together. Its not so much a choice as it was a nessicity (no dorms available, and we had been dating for a while, and my parents were tired of me living at home while attending college)
What can / should I do?
2 responses
@ashuashish (154)
• India
22 Jan 07
this type of problem arises only when we look at some girl and gets attrected towards her ,and we think that we are in love with that girl.therefor it is advised that before proposing a girl we have to think very seriously whether you are in love or its just a kind of lust because of age factor.
now you clearly tell her that you are not comfertable with her ,it may be shocking for her but ultimately you have do this ,so better to do it now .
one thingh you must keep in mind that it desearves equal attention to propose a girl for a relationship or to call her for a breakoff,so be clear and polite.
@BlondeDitz (144)
• Canada
22 Jan 07
You should explain to her that you don't feel the same about her as you once did. It's unfair to her to string her along just because you need somewhere to stay. Try finding some other places in the meantime.
@exponents (65)
• United States
23 Jan 07
Its not because I need a place to stay (I'm paying rent).. but, I found your post quite helpful =P
