Do you believe that friends are better than lovers????
@chrissymadam_simple (173)
Philippines
January 22, 2007 3:12am CST
in your own opinion do you believe that....friends are better than lovers??? coz for me I really believe this...as what happened in my life I can really say that friends last a lifetime....how about you??? can you share some of your experiences???
7 responses
@here_for_you (325)
• Philippines
5 Feb 07
I really agree with you. Friends are better than lovers. When you decide to split with a lover, it's already difficult to bring back the friendship because the pain is very unforgettable. But, in the case of a friend, seldom does it happen that the relationship is ended or broken, some disputes and arguments may arise but after some time, the friendship seems to spontaneously restore itself. And the previous and precious friendship is revived. It's very occasional for some lovers to become dear friends again after a broken romance. But, just one advice, if you have a very close friend and you're falling in love with him, I think that a romantic relationship should be welcomed.Why? Because I strongly believe in you. That you know how to handle things the right way. Never be afraid to fall in love for as long as your mind is still prevalent. Your mind will tell you everything that you have to do.
@chrissymadam_simple (173)
• Philippines
5 Feb 07
In some way, you're right friend....but I have to sacrifice...I'll welcome it of course....but at this time, I have to let go.....have to prioritize my studies not for myself but for my family....
@ChuckGel (244)
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
I can't hardly say the answer that i know you've wanted. What i mean is...What if you do really love the person? Would you still prefer to sacrifice yourself not to be a lover of him aside from the fact that he loved you and vice versa just because you're afraid to lose a friend? A motherly advice my dear Tine, "The best way of relationship towards a lover is to be his bestfriend, best listener and his best adviser". Therefore, being a very close friend to someone whom you do the best of all for him makes the person feel the special kind of love you have for that person...
@chrissymadam_simple (173)
• Philippines
5 Feb 07
Thanks my dear mama...that's the best way. I know that those lovers as what they are saying that they like me....I don't know if they are true to themselves...and also if they are true...still it will not be given a chance... I think this is what we called survival of the fittest....heheheh just kidding...have to sacrifice ma....
@vianney_girl16 (55)
• Philippines
2 Feb 07
yah... lovers may leave you everytime they want while friends never forget you eventhough you are apart and always there ready to extend their hands... lovers just do their part when you are together...never expect from a lover....
@yvonitz_marian (117)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
yes, precisely you're right...friends really sticks you longer than lovers...they will be always there for you to help you when you need someone to lean on..so I guess it is better to have friends/..
@ersanjana17 (626)
• India
1 Feb 07
i don't think so.according to me lovers are far better than friends,cause i have boyfriend and he loves me so much and thats why he is my boyfriend also.so he is more than anything in my life.